Looby33
You are grieving , I too physically cared for my grandchild every week from the age of 7 weeks to 4 years of age. I'm now estranged, as from April this year. I'd love to be reconciled with my only child and grandchild , my adult child has made things very clear to me. You will cry , you will be incredibly sad, I'm not going to give you false hope or say things aren't intolerable , because to be honest it's just how it is. I cry every day still , it's a living bereavement, my counsellor agrees , it will come in waves, ebb and flo.....
It's come between my husband and I , it's true men ( some men ) can be emotionally illiterate , they just cope in different ways.
Be kind to yourself, cry , be sad when you want, but also do nice things, I went out Friday with a friend and bought 2 roses ? and planted for my grandchild. Nothing takes my pain away , but we are here for each other, please know that ?