This morning I was thinking about how my NM did what she did. I didn't like myself around her and because she was my mother, I let that be the basis for who I was as a person. Now I'm not in contact I am surrounded by people who do like me and I like who I am around them. I like myself now. She really just turned me into something I wasn't because I was constantly reacting to her.
You can't blame others for their reaction to your bad behaviour.
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