Another poster asked you if Social Services are involved but you did not answer. Your daughter has been associating with risky men and from what you say these men have been violent. Do you actually know how safe your grand-child is?
Do you have other children that your daughter speaks to? perhaps they could find out what is going on.
Perhaps it is a good thing the father of the child has applied to the courts for custody although how amicable will your daughter stay if she thinks he wants full custody. It all needs to get sorted out for the safety of the child.
Things you find stressful that other people don't notice.
Is there such a thing as delicious ready meals?
How do you acknowledge Easter.