This seems to be a core question where estrangement is concerned.
It's a yes/no question as far as I can see, so I will start with my example...
No. No Contact is not abuse. No one can abuse anyone they are not in contact with.
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Prayer ban at Katharine Birbalsingh’s school is lawful, High Court rules .