Due to my son and his partner's behaviour my daughter has little (if any) contact with her brother. I don't blame her after the way they have both treated her.
Because I have now bubbled up with my daughter she is coming with her family for Easter. I am hoping it will be enjoyable and relaxing as we haven't seen each other since Christmas.
She said she has no intention of contacting her brother while she's here and I sort of get that, but I do feel she's forcing my hand a little by keeping quiet. He may find out anyway from family and friends.
I am all but estranged from my son and his family now- we exchange texts and the odd phone call but I'm not 'allowed' to go to his home anymore.
I don't like being underhand and I'm trying to be very clear and upfront with everyone as going behind people's backs as only caused problems in the past.
I don't see why I shouldn't let my son know his sister is visiting as she is coming to my home and shouldn't really expect me to cover it up. I think it compromises me as parent to both of them.
I think I will mention to my son that she is coming. I doubt he will contact us, but don't want to be seen as being covert.
What does anyone else think?
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