I see what you're saying CafeAuLait but as it was Elless son who approached her the other day with his child who she'd never seen, I don't think her sending birthday cards would be wrong.
It's a catch 22 isn't it, she may be damned if she does and damned if she doesn't.
Well, well. Is it ‘global warming’ or ‘cloud seeding’?
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