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We do exist, but after this why bother?

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M0nica Thu 07-Mar-19 16:19:49

Prince Harry gave a speech yesterday in which he said:

You may find yourself frustrated with the older generation when it seems they don’t care. Try to remember that not everyone sees the world the way you do but that doesn’t mean they don’t care.

You have the the incredible opportunity to help reshape mindsets, to empower those around you to think outside the box and to work with you, not against you, to find solutions

Now I know he is not the sharpest knife in the box, but he pas a personal office which contains press and media advisers - and probably speech writers as well, but why did someone let him make statements like this.

I wonder what is grandmother has said to him in private about it?

Anniebach Sat 09-Mar-19 10:59:30

Yes favourably, but judging by what you see in the media, so am I.

M0nica Sat 09-Mar-19 12:25:29

Well after all the virtue signalling talk about looking after the environment etc etc, we now hear that he is using helicopters for journeys that could be done just as well by train and that his wife is hiring, or borrowing private jets for journeys across the Atlantic.

Wouldn't be nice if they did some things that really stand out. We are all being exhorted to wear clothes 30 times before we ditch them. Supposing the 2 Duchesses were seen to wear their public event clothes 30 times, what a lot of money they would save and what a message it would send. Princess Anne manages it, but then she always did put her actions where her mouth is.

What about hearing about all the energy saving equipment and insulation going into Prince Harry's new home in Windsor and new technologies he is including.

janeainsworth Sat 09-Mar-19 12:27:47

“All she[Meghan] needs when they are together is a lead for him[Harry].”

That is a spiteful thing to say about anyone anniebach and the fact that you have no personal knowledge of either of them makes it even worse in my opinion.

annep1 Sat 09-Mar-19 12:37:58

I've skipped a lot of this. Yes he was wrong. End of.

Anniebach Sat 09-Mar-19 12:56:45

janeainsworth the majority watched tv , have thoughts about the person in the news. ‘She is beautiful, he is handsome etc. when i see Harry and Megan together I am reminded of a puppy eager to please his mistress , hence my comment about a lead .

Granless Sat 09-Mar-19 13:11:50

I love the Gransnet forum - it can be fiery, great!

Anniebach Sat 09-Mar-19 13:14:19

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Gonegirl Sat 09-Mar-19 13:35:59

End of nothing annelp. why should it be just cos you said it? confused

Sussexborn Sat 09-Mar-19 13:55:34

When Kate wears the same outfit twice she is slated for not supporting the British fashion industry.

Harry is currently enthralled by Meghan and she is using him for her own agenda. It is not a healthy and equal relationship. I am not convinced by her righteousness. He is a means to an end and got her where she wanted to be.

She has no understanding of how royalty have managed to keep their position. Meghan also didn’t realise that they are a way down the pecking order and no matter who she tramples underfoot, that isn’t going to change. Sadly for Harry I fear it is going to end in tears!

janeainsworth Sat 09-Mar-19 15:04:36

the majority watched tv , have thoughts about the person in the news. ‘She is beautiful, he is handsome etc. when i see Harry and Megan together I am reminded of a puppy eager to please his mistress , hence my comment about a lead
Watching TV doesn’t give anyone the right to make unsubstantiated and mean-spirited comments about other people, whoever they are.
Perhaps you should keep your thoughts to yourself anniebach as expressing them often says more about you than anyone else.

Lily65 Sat 09-Mar-19 15:06:27

I think the spending on clothes is very unpleasant.

M0nica Sat 09-Mar-19 15:28:20

My only complaint, which takes us back to the original speech is that if you are going to talk the talk then you need to be seen to be walking the walk - and the Duke and Duchess of Sussex, do an awful lot of virtue-signalling talk. I can see no sign that they do any walking at all - especially when there is a helicopter or private jet ready for them.

Lilyflower Sun 10-Mar-19 22:40:26

Harry is a privileged member of the upper classes deflecting criticism by aiming it at another group in society, in this case the older generation who made the prosperity, stability and security that we all enjoy now. He also had a lecture for others about living in a ‘green’ way shortly before spending thousands on a private helicopter flight.

Not that I care. He seems to be a nice chap. However, I really object to virtue signallers telling others what to think and how to live. Harry’s grandmother, with her gnomic silence on every issue, seems to have the right idea.

Jalima1108 Sun 10-Mar-19 22:50:22

However, I really object to virtue signallers telling others what to think and how to live
Hear hear, Lilyflower

I think the spending on clothes is very unpleasant.
I'm not sure if you mean the actual spending or the media obsession with it Lily65
I suppose one could say that they are supporting the British fashion industry (well, I hope the clothes are British).

hpom Sun 10-Mar-19 23:26:04

He is addressing the older generation who supported Brixet and support people like Trump, who does not believe in global warming.

Eloethan Sun 10-Mar-19 23:39:17

Why is it Harry and Meghan who get all the criticisms?

The royal family aren't renowned for their sparkling repartee or insightful speeches. Neither are they known for their careful use of resources.

I am not a fan of royalty and would prefer a republic but I don't like the unpleasantness that seems to continually be aimed at Meghan and Harry. I don't think they are the first to fly in a jet or helicopter.

Perhaps it was rather undiplomatic of him to imply that
all older people might be perceived as uncaring but I don't think the remark is excessively offensive. There have been many very unkind comments made about young people on Gransnet - they are spendthrift, lazy, entitled, "snowflakes", etc, etc. Not everybody has expressed that opinion, of course, but to those who have , I would say "If you can't take it, don't dish it out."

grannyqueenie Sun 10-Mar-19 23:47:44

Eloethan you’ve just written what I’ve been composing in my head! grin

paddyann Mon 11-Mar-19 01:27:24

wee bit different saying it on GN and making aspeech that will be heard worldwide I would think .I'll happily criticise them all one at a time if you like eleothan .I have no problem with thinking they are a waste of good air and should be shown the door when Lizzie pops her clogs .Hereditary monarchies should have been left in medieval times where they belong alone with knights and lords etc etc etc .All of which are there just so some can act superior and be treated as such by the very people who pay for their overprivileged lifestyles

annep1 Mon 11-Mar-19 02:47:23

Paddyann
Hereditary monarchies should have been left in medieval times where they belong alone with knights and lords etc etc etc
I agree!

M0nica Mon 11-Mar-19 07:40:56

Except that a lot of the older generation didn't vote for Brexit and object to being tarred by the Brexit brush.

ReadyMeals Mon 11-Mar-19 08:44:15

I am particularly gutted because I was hoping for a full union one day like the USA. I rather liked the idea of being part of a great world power, to match America.

annep1 Mon 11-Mar-19 08:54:20

Fair comnent Eloethan

Anniebach Mon 11-Mar-19 09:07:41

Get rid of the monarch, knighthoods etc and we will free of poverty

Eloethan Mon 11-Mar-19 09:12:11

I think it is counter-productive to personalise the issue. It is the institution I despise, not the people, though I suspect they feel absolutely comfortable with their privileged lifestyle and so would not be the sort of people with whom I'd have much in common.

However, calling anyone a "waste of air" is, in my opinion, rather chilling and akin to saying they, as people, have no right to exist.

The sort of snobbery and, I believe, racism that has been aimed at this couple should, I think, be challenged, whether you agree with their royal status or not because it reinforces and legitimises the same sort of attitudes that are found in wider society.

Anniebach Mon 11-Mar-19 09:18:29

Bringing racism into this is daft