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Thoughts when Others Make Negative or Offensive Comments

(30 Posts)
cornishpatsy Wed 30-Dec-20 14:15:27

I really dont care what people say unless it is someone whose opinion I value.

SueDonim Wed 30-Dec-20 14:12:50

‘Did you mean to be so rude?’ is a handy response.

Spangler Wed 30-Dec-20 13:47:47

Just after my hip replacement, I got called: "A doddering old $%&£! from a motorist because the pedestrian lights had changed to red before I reached the end of the crossing. I just turned, looked him in the eye and said: "I'm the same," and carried on. His look of bewilderment was priceless.

FannyCornforth Wed 30-Dec-20 13:36:16

Sorry, nothing to add, except that I'm now head-singing 'Let it Snow' to the tune of 'Let it Go'.tchconfused

ss1024 Wed 30-Dec-20 13:30:45

I was wondering what other people say in their head when someone makes a negative or offensive comment and you don't wish to verbally reply. I have gotten in the habit of singing in my head "Let it Go" to the tune of "Let it Snow".