M0nica
Glorianny you have some very cliched ideas about 90 year olds. I have met a significant nimber of 90 year olds still playing a significant part in helping their communities, perhaps not looking after grandchildren, their grandchildren being old enough to be parents themselves, but organising events, leaflet delivering for the political aprty they support, helping out ata the local Age Uk office,
I have a centenarian living opposite me. He is out everday walking his daily mile and chattin to people he meets on the way.
This stuff about old people taking beds that could be treating younger people, sounds like the silly thing about old people working putting young people out of work. It doesn't work like that. most people get through most of their lives without haviung much recourse to the NHS. these days it is only when we get old that we start needing health care. Most of us pay into the NHS for decades, while needing no care. We expect when the time comes and we do need it, it will be there.
if care is going to be based on age then paying it should also be based on age, so that only old people pay and could someone refund me all the money I (willingly) paid to an NHS that I thought was there for me from cradle to grave, which i now discover is from cradle to 65.
How do you judge quality of life? Of course there are scores, but when the score is one aprticular person, it is going to vary, some peoples zest for life will keep them getting value form their life when quite disabled, where another won't. I have seen that as well.
Excellent post MOnica.
Although Glorianny can speak for herself, I think her argument is that Daltrey's observations should be taken as a catalyst for debate.
My argument is - why should we take his pronouncements with any more serious 'reverence' than, say, one of the thousands of others working within the health service or for charitable organisations?
I suppose the answer will be because he has a platform and can therefore use it to make us aware - as other high-profile individuals have done on various other matters. But this pre-supposes that (a) we, the little people so to speak, are in need of a spokesperson to articulate the complexities of such an issue, and (b) that the 'spokesperson' has some depth of knowledge of the matter that the rest of us are not privy to (if you'll excuse my garbled grammar).
And it also presupposes that the 'solution' to the problem of an ageing cohort is to hope we die before we get old when in fact we should, if we are going to discuss and debate the matter at all, be looking at the whole structure of the NHS, its funding, its capabilities, our expectations, and - not least - why it is now in such a grim state. Daltrey should perhaps also question himself on his staunch support of the Tory party which has presided over the last 14 years of austerity which has certainly had its effect on all our public services. Although I'm not sure of the depth of his grasp of politics, if he failed to understand that voting for Brexit would have repercussions on his band's ability to go on tour through the extra expense of acquiring work permits and carnets!
As you say MOnica, Most of us pay into the NHS for decades, while needing no care. We expect when the time comes and we do need it, it will be there.
As to the deeper question regarding heroic treatment of very old people when they are nearing death, I think I could safely bet my house that it's a matter that many of us as we age have thought about - and even planned for. In fact, I know it's true because we've had these discussions on GN and many members have made it quite clear what their wishes are. Because although views may vary, we are educated and intelligent people who have watched our own parents' demise and have probably learned more from that than we will ever learn from a rock legend sparking a media controversy - on which the media thrives and survives.