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Has anyone else heard this?

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fancyflowers Wed 25-Feb-26 01:43:58

My mother, when she was alive, used to call old people 'old biddies.'

When we talked about her going into a care home, she said that she was never going to go into one as they were all full of 'old biddies.'

Is this a Northern expression or was it a common phrase in the past?

Graphite Wed 25-Feb-26 02:03:31

Biddy is a very old word for a chicken or hen. It appears in Twelfth Night.

Its use to describe fussy old women dates from the early 19C OED An old woman, esp. one regarded as fussy or interfering. Frequently in old biddy.

It’s also a pet form of the name Bridget which used to be used in the US for Irish domestic servants.

I suspect the version we know now has developed from hens clucking and flapping.

Hen is used colloquially in Scotland and parts of Northern England as a form of address for a girl or woman, typically as a term of affection or endearment.

I'm from the south of England where biddy can still be heard quite often to describe a fussy old woman.

Charleygirl5 Wed 25-Feb-26 02:27:36

I am Scottish and the word was used there but having lived in England since the late 1960's it isn't a word I have heard, but certainly it was used where I lived in Scotland.

nanna8 Wed 25-Feb-26 02:27:52

I know that phrase, my Dad used it and he was a Londoner from way back. I don’t think Mum said it (Yorkshire). They tend to be very rude here with ‘old fart’ 😀

cornergran Wed 25-Feb-26 02:48:31

My parents, from East London, also used the word. There were old biddies and nosey old biddies, usually said with a smile and often in the persons hearing. I don’t recall anyone being offended.

BlueBelle Wed 25-Feb-26 04:35:03

Oh yes we definitely used the term old biddy I think it’s a universal to Uk term as we definitely used it in the east of England and my Nan and grandad from the midlands would say it
Now my Suffolk gran would say mawther don’t hear than one much

Allsorts Wed 25-Feb-26 04:58:22

Heard if it but used it.

mum2three Wed 25-Feb-26 05:28:54

Strange that someone should ask this because I thought it was a very common expression. As already stated, it brings to mind hens fussing about. In fact, I have referred to this site as being full of sanctimonious old biddies.

BlueBelle Wed 25-Feb-26 07:32:45

I think it is / was very common not colloquial

welbeck Wed 25-Feb-26 08:26:47

It's a derogatory term for an older woman.

Greyduster Wed 25-Feb-26 08:31:06

As Welbeck said, a derogatory term for an older woman so “an interfering old biddy”. I thought it was quite a common phrase.

JackyB Wed 25-Feb-26 08:31:15

I always thought of it as a benign - if somewhat patronising - term for sweet little old ladies, and I wouldn't be offended by it.

Grannybags Wed 25-Feb-26 09:11:32

My Mum, born in Yorkshire, used to sign my husband's birthday cards 'love from the old biddy'!

misb Wed 25-Feb-26 09:13:34

Old buffers - for old men !

Oreo Wed 25-Feb-26 09:42:36

cornergran

My parents, from East London, also used the word. There were old biddies and nosey old biddies, usually said with a smile and often in the persons hearing. I don’t recall anyone being offended.

Yes, I remember it being used there too.

Oreo Wed 25-Feb-26 09:42:57

misb

Old buffers - for old men !

Old duffers surely?

Oreo Wed 25-Feb-26 09:44:04

mum2three

Strange that someone should ask this because I thought it was a very common expression. As already stated, it brings to mind hens fussing about. In fact, I have referred to this site as being full of sanctimonious old biddies.

Hey! Not so much of the ‘old’ 😂

dragonfly46 Wed 25-Feb-26 09:44:25

Yes it is a word I grew up with in Yorkshire.

Wyllow3 Wed 25-Feb-26 09:53:12

No, I'm aware of the term but haven't heard it used. but having past a certain point (not sure when) I hear people adding "bless" to conversations when addressing me.

It drives me spare when it goes alongside the patronising tone used.

LOUISA1523 Wed 25-Feb-26 13:35:15

welbeck

It's a derogatory term for an older woman.

It's used a lot where I come from in Yorkshire....more a term of endearment .

Fallingstar Wed 25-Feb-26 14:08:57

Have heard this used as well as ‘old dears’ in Lancs where we come from originally. In London it seems to be ‘old girls’ or ‘old boys’.
Tbh I like the American term ‘old timers’.

Astitchintime Wed 25-Feb-26 14:14:48

I’m in England and I’ve heard the term ‘biddies’ ……… not that I think it’s acceptable to use it though. I worked in the public sector and would never have referred to our service users as ‘ biddies’!

AGAA4 Wed 25-Feb-26 14:30:11

I've heard of old fogies, old biddies, old duffers and old folks being used in different places I've lived.

Esmay Wed 25-Feb-26 14:47:58

I think that it's rude .

Chardy Wed 25-Feb-26 22:29:29

South of London - yes to old biddies. But I would say they're old women, not men.