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Has anyone else heard this?

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fancyflowers Wed 25-Feb-26 01:43:58

My mother, when she was alive, used to call old people 'old biddies.'

When we talked about her going into a care home, she said that she was never going to go into one as they were all full of 'old biddies.'

Is this a Northern expression or was it a common phrase in the past?

25Avalon Wed 25-Feb-26 22:50:59

Rife in the South West. I think it’s universal and universally uncomplimentary.

crazyH Wed 25-Feb-26 23:03:54

I have definitely heard ‘old biddy’

REKA Wed 25-Feb-26 23:26:48

Ah yes, my Grandma used to try to avoid the old biddies when shopping.. She'd drag me into the nearest shop to avoid them. Old cronies as well.

nanna8 Wed 25-Feb-26 23:41:44

‘Silly old Buggers,’ is another one. There is actually a club for older men here called that !

MT62 Thu 26-Feb-26 00:00:15

Common term where I live in the North.
Usually Gen X would use it.
Never heard the young generation use it nowadays.
Personally I would call an ‘old person’ an older person, just think it sounds better

MT62 Thu 26-Feb-26 00:01:28

REKA

Ah yes, my Grandma used to try to avoid the old biddies when shopping.. She'd drag me into the nearest shop to avoid them. Old cronies as well.

Or ‘coffin dodgers’

MT62 Thu 26-Feb-26 00:03:25

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Biddy is a very old word for a chicken or hen. It appears in Twelfth Night.

Its use to describe fussy old women dates from the early 19C OED An old woman, esp. one regarded as fussy or interfering. Frequently in old biddy.

It’s also a pet form of the name Bridget which used to be used in the US for Irish domestic servants.

I suspect the version we know now has developed from hens clucking and flapping.

Hen is used colloquially in Scotland and parts of Northern England as a form of address for a girl or woman, typically as a term of affection or endearment.

I'm from the south of England where biddy can still be heard quite often to describe a fussy old woman.

You would hear of that ‘nosey old biddy’
Next door!

MG55 Thu 26-Feb-26 00:15:47

Old biddies - yes definitely used here in the North West.

imaround Thu 26-Feb-26 00:34:06

My grandmother used it here in the US!

I also called my chickens biddie birds when I had them.

nexus63 Thu 26-Feb-26 00:40:34

i am from glasgow and old biddies is a polite term for old folk, i have heard worse.

keepcalmandcavachon Thu 26-Feb-26 08:41:51

You could quite easily go through life as a bird of some sort-
chicks and birds for the young , a greedy gannet or wise owl.
A mother hen needing the eyes of a hawk! A bit of a magpie when it comes to collecting or simply enjoy swanning aroundgrin

25Avalon Thu 26-Feb-26 10:03:59

keepcalmandcavachon

You could quite easily go through life as a bird of some sort-
chicks and birds for the young , a greedy gannet or wise owl.
A mother hen needing the eyes of a hawk! A bit of a magpie when it comes to collecting or simply enjoy swanning aroundgrin

Don’t forget the pecking order.

twiglet77 Thu 26-Feb-26 10:05:00

My mother affectionately referred to the women at the old people’s day centre as old biddies, that was in Surrey.

Basgetti Thu 26-Feb-26 10:06:54

Yes, commonly used phrase. Usually relating to old women.

Greenfinch Thu 26-Feb-26 10:12:47

Talking of birds I hope I am not “a silly old bird” or even “a silly old coot”.blush

NotSpaghetti Thu 26-Feb-26 11:05:58

I have heard it quite a lot in childhood - in Yorkshire, Lancashire... Midlands too.

Not heard it in any positive light and always about women.

Bukkie Thu 26-Feb-26 11:12:36

I presumed everyone knew the phrases old biddies and old duffers. Both used all the time in East Yorkshire.

ayse Thu 26-Feb-26 11:16:55

Definitely ‘old biddy ’ heard as a child in Sussex. The old lady just down the road always called me ‘duck’. The little devil in me always wanted to say ‘quack’!

TerriBull Thu 26-Feb-26 11:32:13

It's patronising, rude and misogynistic used by the sort of person who thinks they're somehow better than the individual they're casting the slurs at. In the same vein as, old bag, old hag, old crone and a myriad of other insults levied at older women.

Purplepixie Thu 26-Feb-26 11:38:20

County Durham - we used to always say old biddies.

AuntieE Thu 26-Feb-26 13:50:19

nexus63

i am from glasgow and old biddies is a polite term for old folk, i have heard worse.

As in "yon auld besom"

knspol Thu 26-Feb-26 13:58:01

welbeck

It's a derogatory term for an older woman.

It's a term I use and have never thought it was the least bit derogatory and certainly not meant that way by me. I think it's a gentle, mild sort of name for an older person and would not be offended if I was called that.



when I have used

sharon103 Thu 26-Feb-26 13:59:16

Oh yes, old biddies in Northants.

Cath9 Thu 26-Feb-26 13:59:38

It must be definitely used during our mother’s age as my mother also used to refer to old people,’old buddies’ and she was born in Eire.

Pomgirl Thu 26-Feb-26 14:07:36

Lol.I'm a southener..and have heard this description.My husband uses it a lot.He is a southerner too.