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People using my road to enter land

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bobbydog24 Wed 04-Mar-26 16:11:34

We bought a piece of land including the access road 24 years ago with planning permission for 3 houses. A house at the top left of our road sold 3 years ago with land at the rear and buyer applied for planning permission. I was fine with this as long as the use of my road was not included in the plans. A garage behind the house was going to be demolished and entry would be through that space. I was informed of the application and in viewing it realised they had included a detached house where the garage was and included my road as access. I objected to this with my solicitor and it was upheld as the possibility of 12 or more cars trying to access the main road was deemed as hazardous by the Highways department so they had to revert to their original plan. No work has been done up until this week when a motorhome was parked in front of my gate. I investigated who’s it was and it was a man with a chain saw to take two trees down ready for the land being levelled. I explained that this was my private road and he had no right to use it to gain access to the proposed land and owners had agreed to demolish the garage and use that as the entrance to their land. Not his problem he said, he’d been told to park down the road and cut trees down and that once he had, a digger was coming to level the land ready for the foundations. I have been on to my solicitor to see what he can do but in the meantime this moron is just laughing at me. He’s been here every day since Saturday. My heart is pounding at the thought of all this traffic going in and out and I can’t physically stop it until my solicitor finds out how legally we can veto this. My husband died 6 years ago so I’m dealing with this on my own and at 79 it’s no fun. I’ve thought of some kind of barrier but that would be a problem for visitors and delivery people as we are a way off the main road. It’s so frustrating when these people just ride roughshod over your property to suit themselves.

David49 Fri 06-Mar-26 08:41:36

My lane is used by others access I'd agreed in the deeds, maintenance is by agreement from time to time. Each property has its own access point, I get on with the neighbours they all know who owns what, we had a new neighbor last years, we had a chat about ownership and maintenance we both know how it works.

Be careful about regular access, if you allow unauthorized access for many years it can be registered as a footpath. If someone want regular access make sure you give the written permission, then if for whatever reason you want them to stop you can. Becoming the local dog walking trail is not for everyone.

bobbydog24 Fri 06-Mar-26 09:46:52

I do own the road. My solicitor is a friend, who did the conveyancing on the original buying of the land (26 years ago) and my details were archived, resulting in a bit of a delay retrieving them. I also had to complete a security questionnaire regarding money laundering which most solicitors require. The people I am dealing with know I own the road, know they shouldn’t use it but because I’m on my own are exploiting this and riding roughshod, hoping I will cede for a quiet life. I won’t. I’ve thought about leaving my car in the way but that would hinder my neighbours too plus the type of people the owners are I would fear for the safety of my car. I have no intention of swapping solicitors as I trust him completely, he has never let us/me down yet.

Quercus Fri 06-Mar-26 16:17:49

Get a penguin bollard installed at the entrance to the road and get remote controls for each of the neighbours legally entitled to use the road. That will actually stop vehicles from using the road, whereas unscrupulous workmen may ignore a letter.

Lathyrus3 Fri 06-Mar-26 18:04:50

Money laundering information?

You’re not making any sort of purchase.

That doesn’t make sense.

Allira Fri 06-Mar-26 18:07:51

Lathyrus3

Money laundering information?

You’re not making any sort of purchase.

That doesn’t make sense.

Perhaps that was from the purchase of the land years ago.
Were you bringing money from overseas, bobbydog?

I had to fill in forms at the bank re money laundering years ago when I transferred a sum of money overseas for a family wedding.

Lathyrus3 Fri 06-Mar-26 18:59:12

Oh yes, I had to when I bought this house.

But the OP isn’t buying anything. She just needs to access her deeds.

Why would her solicitor have to check for money laundering?

Oh well, it’s all in his hands now…..

Maremia Sat 07-Mar-26 07:41:50

If you are transferring large amounts of money, say even to buy a house, money laundering prevention protocols are now used in the UK. I know this from early summer 2024.

Lathyrus3 Sat 07-Mar-26 08:40:31

But the OP isn’t transferring any money.

That’s why I don’t understand the delay (and charges) while her solicitor carried out money laundering procedures.

David49 Sat 07-Mar-26 09:20:58

It's routine, all part of Due Diligence and security that solicitors do, it delays everything.
It's part of removing red tape that the government talks about but is not happening. But it does allow the solicitor to charge you much more.

Lathyrus3 Sat 07-Mar-26 09:36:28

But you only need it for money transactions. Not for any dealings with solicitors.

The OP was just checking her deeds. No money involved.

I’m going to have to let it go. It makes no sense to me for the solicitor to have done this, nor the hazy arrangements of ownership and access for the other houses.
Or the planning permission refused on numbers using the driveway rather than because the OP owned the land.

The OP says she trusts her solicitor, who did all the original legal work, absolutely. I hope it’s not misplaced.

Wyllow3 Sat 07-Mar-26 09:50:57

Block the road off now over the weekend and tell them it has not been agreed legally and it they hassle you say you will call the police you are nearly 80 and they are doing it illegally and get onto it quickly on Monday.
Have you got anyone supportive to call on if they hassle you

Grammaretto Sat 07-Mar-26 09:52:09

I feel for you.

Years ago a 30metre length of our ancient garden wall was bulldozed by developers on the neighbouring huge building site.
As soon as I realised what was happening I tried to shout at the driver who had ear muffs.
I made a sign saying stop and held it up. He stopped and told me to speak to his boss in the hut way across the other side of the site.

I ranted at them and was shown the plan they were working to. It was a scribble on a piece of paper and included all the land as far as my house. 😯

I luckily had the deeds and invited the site manager to my house to look at them.

The wall was reinstated although you can see the joins as over the years it has shrunk a bit.
It made me realise I could take nothing for granted when it comes to property and boundaries.

Get your MP on side. You are being bullied.

bobbydog24 Sat 07-Mar-26 09:57:50

Solicitor has issued Cease and Desist order and I’ve had no more parking. The information re money laundering is required by all solicitors when charges will be involved. I will be paying for my solicitors assistance. Thanks for your comments and critique. I’ll close the post now.

M0nica Sat 07-Mar-26 13:30:17

Delighted that things have been resolved so uickly.

polnan Sat 07-Mar-26 14:25:35

..and many thanks for telling us of the successful outcome.

Allira Sat 07-Mar-26 14:30:06

Thank you for letting us know bobbydog.

That's a relief, hope all continues well.

David49 Sat 07-Mar-26 17:55:46

If anyone has development adjoining them you must know where your boundaries are and what use and access rights have been granted.

It can make a big difference to your property value.