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Alea Mon 26-Oct-15 11:10:17

A cousin is coming to lunch this week with her 4 year old (step) great grandson aged 4. His father is a charming Moroccan but as Muslms, they eat only halal food. Four year olds in my experience (DGS) are not major veg eaters and my mind has gone blank as to what I can give this little boy to eat. I know about not meat, but any animal derivatives are ruled out , so presumably that includes cheese, jelly (gelatine) maybe ice cream? Pasta OK but what sort of sauce? Tomato? The grown ups will be having soup, bread and cheese. Any suggestions welcome!

TriciaF Mon 26-Oct-15 11:18:22

I make a pasta sauce with red peppers and onions, because husband won't eat tomatoes. Cook slowly in a little oil then liquidise.
You can get vegetarian cheese. Youre right about Jelly as the gelatine is usually an animal biproduct.
Most Muslims will eat kosher meat, if there's a kosher butcher where you live. And some supermarkets sell kosher products.

Nonnie Mon 26-Oct-15 11:50:26

A lot of meat in supermarkets nowadays is actually Halal so you could go in and ask.

JessM Mon 26-Oct-15 12:20:18

Any really large supermarket will probably have halal meat on sale.

Grannyknot Mon 26-Oct-15 12:34:32

Yep our Tesco has an entire section devoted to Halal chicken and meat ...

Alea Mon 26-Oct-15 12:38:06

Thank you all,but it is just the little fella who needs Halal food so I am not going to go getting Halal meat etc for a soup and sandwich lunch.( Cousin is from Ayrshire!!)

LullyDully Mon 26-Oct-15 13:14:09

Just stick to vegetarian and you should be fine. To keep it simple salad, humus, good bread and veggie samosas. Fruit for pudding.Nothing with geletine..or animal fat..... Sounds delicious.

Trouble is with going down the halal route it depends how you feel about it. Stick safe with vegetarian.

rosequartz Mon 26-Oct-15 13:27:58

No sweeties either, or be very careful if you do buy any for him as many contain gelatine.

My DGDs both love soup; he may surprise you and ask for some smile

Ana Mon 26-Oct-15 13:30:05

I was thinking that a four year old would probably be fine with soup, too. I used to give it to my GDs when they were that age and they loved it!

Maggiemaybe Mon 26-Oct-15 13:45:57

My 2 year old DGS would both love the soup option too. smile And they usually want to eat what the grown ups have anyway.

M0nica Mon 26-Oct-15 14:30:29

The main thing to absolutely avoid in any form is PORK or anything derived from the pig. I have otherwise quite happily served Muslim visitors beef lamb and chicken. Muslims are not usually vegetarian. They are strict about how the animal has been slaughtered, but PORK in any form is totally forbidden as it is also for Jews.

I know Jewish people have dietary restrictions involving shell fish. I do not think this applies to Muslims, but probably best avoided.

I would expect a 4 year old to eat the same food as adults and not require separate catering.

rosequartz Mon 26-Oct-15 14:33:08

It is also how any animal is slaughtered.

rosequartz Mon 26-Oct-15 14:35:29

The only vegetable mine refused yesterday was parsnips (a bit strong-tasting).
Otherwise they ate a variety of veggies. And if the veggies are in soup he might not realise wink
Just be careful of using meat stock or cubes that are not halal.

Alea Mon 26-Oct-15 14:50:49

From what I have read, food divides up into "halal" (acceptable to Muslim dietary laws) and "haram" (unacceptable) so it is not a case of looking out for specifically "halal meat".
M0nica, , I appreciate what you say but if anybody, 4 or 40 is of a religion or cultural background which precludes a food type ("haram") I will respect that just as I would expect his primary school to respect ethnic differences.
So while we and his Scottish Greatgranny may tuck into what pleases us, I would not dream of giving him sausages, burgers, jelly and ice cream -all of which my DGSs would have loved, if that is not suitable. To me this 4 year old's needs must be taken into consideration, just as if he suffered from coeliac disease, or was diabetic, so I don't actually agree with your final sentence that you would "expect a 4 year old to eat the same food as adults and not require separate catering".
What I am realising, though, is how European, white, middle class, dare I say "English" the majority of members must be for nobody to say what they give their 4year old Muslim/mixed race/whatever DGC to eat!
(I realise I expressed myself badly, perhaps making it look as if DH's cousin as well as the little boy was Muslim, but he is the son of her late husband's daughter from his first marriage, also Scottish, but married to a N African. Cousin is on half term "Granny duty" and the little boy and his family live just 12 or so miles away from us, so a good opportunity for DH and cousin to meet up. )
Sorry about that.

LullyDully Mon 26-Oct-15 14:51:41

I am not saying Muslims are vegetarian, of course not. Just no meat or geletine......It is easy to so. No jelly sweets like Haribo. Anything needing geletine. So chocolate is fine .

I think go for subtle and don't make too much fuss really.

rosequartz Mon 26-Oct-15 15:04:56

middle class according to another thread, none of us are middle class hmm
Lots of us aren't English grin

Just no meat or geletine.
Meat and meat products are fine (not from swine) as long as they are killed by the halaal method.
Cheese should be halaal

Alea Mon 26-Oct-15 15:06:12

Yes, I know lullydully shame about the Haribos as I have a bumper pack of Hallowe'en sweets ready for tiny "trick or treaters" at the weekend!
So veggie soup it is, bread, cheese or tomatoes etc, probably fruit (is yogurt OK?) for pud, and gingerbread men for "snack"!

Alea Mon 26-Oct-15 15:08:31

grin I knew somebody would pick me up shoot me down for that, but not much indication of mixed race/religion/ethnicity of DGC in the replies!!

rosequartz Mon 26-Oct-15 15:08:40

As long as the yogurt is not thickened with gelatine .....

(sory, but some is)

rosequartz Mon 26-Oct-15 15:11:59

Alea grin
Just thought it was funny, not shooting you down

durhamjen Mon 26-Oct-15 15:29:30

Providing the cheese is suitable for vegetarians, roseq.

Nelliemoser Mon 26-Oct-15 15:59:23

It is not that complicated. Avoid pork! With any small child you do not know, it is worth finding out what stuff he usually has at home, any real dislikes and how concerned the parents are about up holding dietry rules.

There were quite a lot of Jewish children at my kids primary school whose parents would happily go out to a cafe for a bacon butty, but never had non kosher food in the house.

My 3yr old grandson seems to eat anything given to him so he is very easy to feed. He likes curry (rendered milder by his mum.) Chinese food and he is very partial to Wagamama noodles, garlic bread, "oblibs".

shysal Mon 26-Oct-15 16:03:57

If you want to give jelly, Alea, Tesco sell a Halal one. It is in powder form and sets within minutes. For this reason I often use it, although it is not as clear as the normal ones.

Nelliemoser Mon 26-Oct-15 16:07:52

I wonder if you are a Muslim you could eat Halal beef derived gelatine? The food laws appear to be alot less stringent than the more orthodox Jewish "food laws!"

LullyDully Mon 26-Oct-15 17:29:42

Jewish and Muslim food laws are similar. Not sure about the milk and meat bit.

In Birmingham, where I taught, even the young children were trained to know what to eat. They a knew about Haribo. At one time biscuits had animal fat so had to check them but mostly ok now.

Some of the teachers in those days thought it didn't matter as long as we didn't tell them!!!! Luckily there is less ignorance now.