I would like some advice on dealing with my 2 adult grandchildren. My daughter and I have always had conflicts and everytime this happens, she calls her children and tells them. I've never asked them because I don't want to get them involved, but I suspect she doesn't always tell them the truth. My grandson is married and recently had a son. I've seen my great grandson once in 5 months. I reach out to both kids always, but months can go by of no response. My daughter and I have since forgiven each other and get together often. My husband and I always go to Arizona for the winters. We live in Idaho. I tried numerous times to contact my grandson to meet my great grandson before we left. On christmas my daughter had her kids over and posted pictures on Facebook. My husband and I were abviously hurt. I haven't talked to her about it because she is having some health issues. I have reached out to both grandkids, but they rarely respond. We all live about 5 miles from each other. My question is do I let my daughter know how hurt I was about Christmas? She knew I really wanted to meet the baby before I left and I tried letting them all know. I don't feel part of this family anymore. We were once very close. My daughter knows how I feel and I've apologized many times for hurting her feelings. I never did intentionally, but she's intitled to her feelings, as she's told me many times. I'm 74 and starting to have health issues. I don't want to feel like this, but don't want to make things worse. Can anyone give me some advice?