Couldn’t wait for myDH to retire as I had so many activities to share with him. BUT he doesn’t get up til 9 am when I wake him, has breakfast in front of tv and remains there and has the tv On most of the day. He came to bowls and bridge with me but doesn’t like the way it’s social rather than competitive, so doesn’t come any more. He plays golf (well) but won’t get up early In the winter when it’s cold and dark, so misses his place on the tee,. He doesn’t want to socialise with old friends and is quite happy to be on his own. This isn’t how I imagined our retirement ?