That sounds like a wonderful arrangement — she’s going to love her Fridays with Grandad!
If you’re looking for toddler-friendly groups that aren’t nurseries, you could explore:
1. Local “Stay and Play” sessions
Often run by children’s centres, community halls, or church groups.
You pay a small fee, turn up, and let toddlers play with toys while you join in (and chat with other carers).
2. Library rhyme time or story time
Most libraries run free or low-cost sessions for under-5s, with songs, rhymes, and short stories.
Great for socialising and building her language skills.
3. Soft play toddler mornings
Some indoor play centres have quieter sessions for under-3s, usually weekday mornings, where she can explore in a safe, padded environment.
4. Music or baby/toddler dance classes
Groups like Music Bugs, Jo Jingles, or Mini Melodies welcome children from a young age.
They’re interactive and fun, and you can join in too.
5. Park or buggy meet-ups
Some local Facebook or “Mums/Dads/Grandparents” WhatsApp groups arrange informal playdates at the park.
Easy to join, and often free.
Tip for finding them:
Check your local council’s “Family Information Service” page — they usually list all stay-and-play and activity groups by day.
Search Facebook for “[your town] toddler group” or “[your area] stay and play”.
Libraries, leisure centres, and community halls often have noticeboards with flyers.