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Grandad looking to find toddler daygroups in DY3 area.

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A23867184 Sat 05-Aug-23 08:42:14

Hi all, I'm a Grandad and early in 2024, will be going part time from work. To help our Daughter out with childcare cost, I will be entertaining our little bundle of joy on Fridays. She will be about 18 months by then, and I am trying to find a group to attend on Fridays that will enable her to have some interaction with other toddlers, but not necessarily in a nursery environment. Any help would be appreciated.

Sarahmob Mon 07-Aug-23 12:58:27

When. I cared for my grandsons, I found a toddler group to attend together in a local church and a monkey music group that offered music sessions. The toddler group was cheap at 1.50 a session to cover their snack, the music group was a bit more costly but great fun. Good on you for looking OP

Millie22 Mon 07-Aug-23 13:05:20

Alots of numbers
Have we been any help to you?

Germanshepherdsmum Mon 07-Aug-23 14:51:55

Can your daughter not assist with your question? I imagine she would want to approve the activities her child will be taking part in. A very odd enquiry here.

welbeck Mon 07-Aug-23 18:56:42

an astute observation, GSM.

FrankandEarnest Mon 07-Aug-23 19:13:29

GSM, the ‘daughter’ would indeed decide activity!
Also, in 6 months, circumstances may change.
It is unusual for a ‘grandad’ to expect to be welcomed
to join a group of presumably young women with toddlers.

FrankandEarnest Mon 07-Aug-23 19:16:10

Glorianny

There is a franchise called "Messy Monkeys" which might be in your area. Mind it is what it says and you have to be prepared to bath and change the toddler at the end of a session.

I’m amazed and disquietened this comment was allowed

ElaineI Mon 07-Aug-23 20:47:39

FrankandEarnest

Glorianny

There is a franchise called "Messy Monkeys" which might be in your area. Mind it is what it says and you have to be prepared to bath and change the toddler at the end of a session.

I’m amazed and disquietened this comment was allowed

Not sure why you think it shouldn't be allowed? Messy play activities involve toddlers getting covered in paint, glue, slime, glitter etc. Best to have them in a vest or swimsuit and yes they do need washed after.

Georgesgran Mon 07-Aug-23 20:53:19

As the OP hasn’t returned with any comments or a word of thanks for suggestions (mine included) I think we must consider the ‘innocence’ of the Post?
Sadly the pre-penultimate posts have possibly played into the OP’s hands.
Hopefully, I’m wrong, but …..

lyleLyle Mon 07-Aug-23 20:58:05

Germanshepherdsmum

Can your daughter not assist with your question? I imagine she would want to approve the activities her child will be taking part in. A very odd enquiry here.

Spot on!

Speak with your daughter first and foremost. It’s sweet that you are so excited and thinking about what those days will look like, but ultimately your daughter gets to decide.

NotSpaghetti Tue 08-Aug-23 07:25:02

I would be dismayed if people responded to my husband like this had he posted here.
There are lots of great grandads out there who love looking after little ones or who want to help their sons and daughters out. I know my own father would have loved this opportunity had we been living closer.
It's not only women you know.

welbeck Tue 08-Aug-23 17:19:58

this is a public forum, anyone can read it. anyone.
there are lots of people out there. all sorts.
not all of them are like you, or come at things as you would.
please think around these issues.

VioletSky Tue 08-Aug-23 17:45:44

You know, the OP will not come back to this thread after some of the comments

Ridiculous hurtful paranoia

Germanshepherdsmum Tue 08-Aug-23 17:53:02

Was he ever going to?

Christian1x Thu 14-Aug-25 15:16:44

That sounds like a wonderful arrangement — she’s going to love her Fridays with Grandad!

If you’re looking for toddler-friendly groups that aren’t nurseries, you could explore:

1. Local “Stay and Play” sessions

Often run by children’s centres, community halls, or church groups.

You pay a small fee, turn up, and let toddlers play with toys while you join in (and chat with other carers).

2. Library rhyme time or story time

Most libraries run free or low-cost sessions for under-5s, with songs, rhymes, and short stories.

Great for socialising and building her language skills.

3. Soft play toddler mornings

Some indoor play centres have quieter sessions for under-3s, usually weekday mornings, where she can explore in a safe, padded environment.

4. Music or baby/toddler dance classes

Groups like Music Bugs, Jo Jingles, or Mini Melodies welcome children from a young age.

They’re interactive and fun, and you can join in too.

5. Park or buggy meet-ups

Some local Facebook or “Mums/Dads/Grandparents” WhatsApp groups arrange informal playdates at the park.

Easy to join, and often free.

Tip for finding them:

Check your local council’s “Family Information Service” page — they usually list all stay-and-play and activity groups by day.

Search Facebook for “[your town] toddler group” or “[your area] stay and play”.

Libraries, leisure centres, and community halls often have noticeboards with flyers.

whyDelilahwhy Thu 14-Aug-25 21:18:43

Christian1x the child in question has grown up and moved away…

whyDelilahwhy Thu 14-Aug-25 21:28:05

your post fills a whole page on an iPad : why do you feel this is necessary?