My daughter in law is quite complex and sometimes is glad to see us and other times practically ignores us. We never call round without asking and for the past 21 months (since baby was born) we only went once a week for an hour or so. My son and DIL have only visited us - 10 minutes away - about 6 times since the baby was born but as her mother lives very close the baby sees her about 3 times a day and they spend Christmas and sundays with her family. We feel as though we can't do anything right and since she spoke to me quite rudely we haven't seen them at all. We have been able to take the baby out and we adore her and have so much fun with her. We are particularly sad as we have given them a lot of support both personally and financially and have never refused any requests for help, nor do we dwell on this or remind them. We are very easygoing and cheerful but are feeling down about this situation.
