Of course there are plenty of grandparents and grandchildren who have close and loving relationships and that is delightful and beneficial to both generations. However, if grandchildren don't have much or anything to do with their grandparents, through death, distance, divorce, family break-up, lack of interest or whatever, does it really matter to the child? Even when there has once been a close relationship and it ends, I don't think much harm is done to the child. It's just one of life's lessons and kids are very resilient.
And we have certainly had enough requests for advice from distraught mothers concerning the very harmful behaviour of mothers and mothers-in-law towards their grandchildren to be well aware that not all grannies are lovely people.
Thinking about family relationships in general in the past, I suspect that our generation of grandparents, especially grandmothers, is just a bit too self-important and prissy about their place in their grandchildren's lives.
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To think that London, or anywhere else for that matter, does not belong to any one demographic