Tegan I'm sure your daughter never meant to upset you because you sound such a lovely mum. But such small things can sometimes be unexpectedly hurtful can't they.
Sadly, my relationship with my daughter is a somewhat rocky one and I accept most of the responsibility for that. I was only 22 when I had her and was in some ways quite immature - an only child who, though not materially spoilt, had never had to share my time with brothers and sisters and who had never even held a baby before. I was totally overwhelmed and panicked by motherhood and dealt with it by working every minute to keep the house clean, provide clean and ironed clothes, make two full meals a day, etc. etc., and oblivious to the fact that I wasn't providing the affection and fun that a child needs. Of course, it doesn't do any good to beat myself up about things that cannot be changed but, whilst I realise that no parent is perfect, I can't help but feel regretful.