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How much is enough -Xmas presents for a GC?

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LuckyDucky Sat 07-Nov-15 05:21:11

Are 32 presents to an only child (from the parents) too much?
The presents varied in price and size. . . .

jinglbellsfrocks Wed 11-Nov-15 09:33:32

Home made stuff just lays in drawers taking up much needed space, until eventually someone else has the task of throwing it out.

Maggiemaybe Wed 11-Nov-15 09:48:18

What, you mean the DGSs aren't going to love and cherish the adorable elves I'm making them from a free pattern and a load of scrap material because I'm too tight to buy Elves on the Shelves and think they look a bit sinister anyway?

They'd ruddy well better grin

jinglbellsfrocks Wed 11-Nov-15 09:54:17

TBH, my elder GS (14 now) still loves the teddy bear I knitted for him when he was tiny. So I'm sure they will love your elves. wink

jinglbellsfrocks Wed 11-Nov-15 09:56:12

And, come to think of it, younger GS buys loads of knitted tat homemade knitted Xmas decs from the church Xmas fair!

So, I'm obviously completely wrong. grin

jinglbellsfrocks Wed 11-Nov-15 10:00:19

Crikey! I'm not surprised you don't buy 'em at that price shock

Maggiemaybe Wed 11-Nov-15 11:56:04

Oh, I'll probably still be buying them, once the handmade project fails miserably. grin

Maggiemaybe Wed 11-Nov-15 11:57:19

But by then the things will be sold out everywhere but on a site shipping from America at twice the price.

Maggiemaybe Wed 11-Nov-15 12:00:06

I'm having flashbacks now to the Teenage Mutant Hero Turtles trauma back in the 80s.

KittyBoo Fri 13-Nov-15 09:11:06

I don't quite know what to do about buying Xmas presents for my two grandchildren, aged 2.5 and 1.5 , as they live abroad.
It's their first Xmas away although I'm going to visit early January. I wish I could see them to give them their present, whatever it is..

Granarchist Mon 16-Nov-15 11:16:28

KittyBoo - take your presents with you. They will have plenty for Christmas Day and frankly at that age they are not going to miss having your present on the day itself. Also this way you get to see the joy on their faces (hopefully).

petra Tue 17-Nov-15 08:52:21

Last year we had to stop buying 'big' presents. The 2 DGC have everything.
So, we buy something small ( not toothpaste ) and they have a day out.
Last year it was The Harry Potter experience and this year we are going to Beaulie (sp) motor museum. They are both car mad.

Judthepud2 Tue 17-Nov-15 14:30:17

Those official Elf on the Shelf toys are a ridiculous price! Hand knitted ones will I'm sure be much loved over the years Maggiemaybe

I bought all of our DGCs an elf from IKEA a few years ago. They cost just a fiver and are much jollier. Such pleasure they have given on the run up to Christmas!

WilmaKnickersfit Tue 17-Nov-15 14:56:17

I realise there's the most wanted gift every year, but those Elf on the Shelf toys seem more of a rip off than most. sad It's great when children are young enough to appreciate an unofficial version of something! grin

granjura Tue 17-Nov-15 17:08:41

Beaulieue - a great place ;) I couldn't believe how the British pronounce it when I first heard of it. Like Belvoir Castle or Street, lol, or cul-de-sac, or genrE, etc, etc,

petra, same here with our GC- they seem ot have everything and more. This year we will buy a bean bag each for their bedroom - the only thing we can imagine they could do with! And for adult kids, it will be silly and fun- lots of goodies they love from here- and-made chocolate, Thomy mustard and mayonnaise, local absinthe and champagne- made into a hamper.

Alea Tue 17-Nov-15 17:46:02

Beaulieu (no "e") pronounced " "Bewley", like "Beaver" Castle. grin

granjura Tue 17-Nov-15 18:42:45

Beauchamp College too (Beecham - well I worked for Beecham).

jinglbellsfrocks Tue 17-Nov-15 18:49:32

Connie Beauchamp on Holby/Casualty!

I really thought she was Mrs Beecham.

annodomini Tue 17-Nov-15 18:59:32

Sir Thomas was Beecham as in Beecham's Pills. All those pronunciations of French names go all the way back to the Conquest. Has it really taken 1000 years to aglicise them, or did it happen quickly?

Alea Tue 17-Nov-15 19:02:04

Featheringstonehaugh = Fanshaw!
Wymondham = Windham!

Alea Tue 17-Nov-15 19:03:11

Don't get the "genre" though Gj whoever stresses the final E??

Ana Tue 17-Nov-15 19:04:39

I do! grin

Ana Tue 17-Nov-15 19:05:21

(although 'stress' is perhaps not the right way to describe it...)

Maggiemaybe Tue 17-Nov-15 19:29:59

Yes, I think I do as well (just had to say it out loud to test the theory) blush

Maggiemaybe Tue 17-Nov-15 19:31:01

A French tutor did once say I had the most English French accent he had ever heard grin

WilmaKnickersfit Tue 17-Nov-15 19:48:22

Until I moved from Scotland as a teenager, I'd never heard of these strange places and their pronunciations and Alea I didn't know about the two you mentioned! I only know about Mr Cholmondley Warner from a comedy show! grin