I hate myself for allowing myself to love and support our ex daughter in law, I've defended her against our son who left her with 3 children (2 from her previous relationship), he treated her badly and has since remarried and had two beautiful little girls, he was having an affair with his present wife so we got off to a rocky start, I despise women who have affairs with married men this was worse cause she was a friend , but his new wife is the mother of our adored baby granddaughters, so we have had to accept her into our family....meanwhile his ex wife has remained a wonderful friend until recently, we have always been Nannie and Granddad to her elder children , but last year the girl aged 25 started to distance herself from us because we had accepted our sons new wife she was very unpleasant to us and upset us terribly , her brother still visited and kept in contact, but the younger girl recently had her prom and her mother left us out of all the arrangements I was very hurt as we have always had a special bond with this GD, I told her mum how I felt and she has dropped us like a ton of bricks her son who we have also been so proud of has also dropped us......I have cried and cried and cried I feel so pathetic, they were never blood family but I loved them all so much, I have said to my DH I will text and apologise but he has gone mad and said No, what do I do
How much do you spend on yourself?