Let me start by saying that watching my little granddaughter is one of life's greatest joys. I am always available because I truly love spending time with her. She's 13 months old and becoming so much fun. So why am I considering telling my daughter and son in law that I will no longer be watching her all week while they work?
My son in law and to a lessor degree my daughter, are hyper critical. Here are a few examples. "How many bottles did she have?" "3" I reply. "No now it's two, I'm sure we told you"
Oh and she's vegan so I have learned everything in order to respect their right to choose her diet.
"how many naps did she have?" "Just one, she wouldn't settle for more than the one". "Great now she's going to be cranky"
Today they went to the movies and prior to leaving Harley went down for a nap. The little monkey slept all the time they were gone. I went in a couple of times and once gently attempted to rouse her. No go. I'm thinking she may be hitting a growth spurt but either way she's perfectly fine. Nope. I'm wrong again. Apparently I should have woken her to see if she needed a diaper change. Seems to me that back in the stone age my kids let me know if they were uncomfortable and unless I went in to check and smelled something foul I left them be.
I work VERY hard to be the best Nana I can. I am on the floor with her almost all day helping her develop her gross motor skills (she was WAY behind) and now she's crawling and holding onto furniture and walking. She's become much more engaged and both her parents have commented on the lightning fast changes in her but of course no one even stops to think that I have literally lived on the floor for 4 weeks. and yes my back is killing me lol.
So back to problem. I really want to keep watching her but feeling a sense of dread prior to their arrival isn't healthy. I already have anxiety issues as well as a few other lovely illnesses that impact my emotional well being and this is really getting to me. Side note S-I-L has never said thank you for the free child care. Not. Once
Also we renovated our basement and built them an apartment so we basically live together too. HELP!
Estranged Son and Future Granddaughter
To think that London, or anywhere else for that matter, does not belong to any one demographic