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Granddaughter wants to live with me !

(57 Posts)
CassieJ Thu 24-Aug-17 15:43:19

You will be able to claim child benefit and child tax credits if she is living with you full time.
What does her mother say / think of the idea of her living with you?
Is she close enough that she can still attend the same school?

Elrel Thu 24-Aug-17 15:33:46

Obviously the financial aspects need careful consideration and discussion. Will she need to change schools? Are any of her friends local to you?. Does she do any regular activities or sports she'd like to keep up?
I think it lovely that DGD wants to stay with you and that you describe her as 'delightful'. I'm sure you'll all work things out between you. Good luck!

tiredoldwoman Thu 24-Aug-17 15:02:35

She's a delightful 14 year old , living out in the sticks until they can return to town. A 5th baby is due at Christmas and I think she needs some space to be a 14 year old ! ( she's the oldest ) I just wondered if anyone else on Gransnet was doing something similar ?

wildswan16 Thu 24-Aug-17 14:57:51

It would be really helpful to know if you are talking about a child, teenager or young person? The financial circumstances would be very different.

devongirl Thu 24-Aug-17 14:43:38

I don't think this could/should be expected of you tiredoldwoman - if she is still a minor and her parents are happy with the idea, they will have to pay you a regular amount for her keep.

BlueBelle Thu 24-Aug-17 14:43:08

Well wouldn't her parents if they agree to her moving give you an allowence for her of course you dont say how old she is
I moved to be with my Nan when I was 15 as my grandad died and I didn't want her on her own we were very close The board and lodging bit costs no more really for two than one Electrucity, heating even food wouldn't be too much difference Hopefully her parents will provide clothes activity or travelling money for her won't they ?

tiredoldwoman Thu 24-Aug-17 14:36:46

My granddaughter has requested to come and live with me due to overcrowding at home . We get on well but I'm wondering how I could cope financially - I work 30 hours per week and receive a small top up of Tax credit . How on earth could I finance a child too ?