I am the one in the middle. I am an only child, a life-long disappointment to my mother (it started with being born female and continued from there), but I am the mother of a son. My son and my mother spent his childhood years as a mutual appreciation society. It meant I got left in peace and criticised to a much lesser extent. It does not particularly upset me - if I am honest, if we weren't related to one another my mother and I would not have anything in common. We just do not understand one another. My son is now an adult and loves his Nan very much, but thinks that she is bossy and a 'bit control freaky'. Let's face it, we are all tied by kinship to some people we don't understand and/or like - in the words of my mother, 'yes dear, I do love you, I just don't like you very much' (she denies saying it now of course), so why pretend. You just treat everyone fairly and be kind, and don't confuse a desire to possess and control with love.
The Republic of Ireland and their tensions with migrants.
34 year old assisted euthanasia