Help! My 23 year old grandson doesn't bother giving cards and presents although he receives them. He didn't send me card for my recent birthday which upset me so I told him so when replying to his message telling me he hadn't got round to it as he was working lots of hours. He then messaged back in a patronising tone, bordering on rude pointing out how my obsession with gifts and cards was spoiling our relationship!
I pointed out that giving and receiving was a common and appreciated practice, nothing to do with materialism but a way of saying, "I'm thinking of you." He's quite a difficult young man, very academic and intellectualising. I had to bite my tongue when he was remonstrating. He sounded as if he was arguing in a seminar at university!
I am now feeling really hurt, angry and wondering how to get round this. I live in the north and he's in London. We don't see each other that often. My daughter will be really upset about it but he's treated with kid gloves and never criticised. Help! Any advice gratefully received ...
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