My Dgs is 4 years old. We don’t see him very often because they live 4.5 hours away and due to Dh and my health it’s a long journey. I have Skyped daily with Dgs since he was very little. We have always been very very close and his love for us has always been great. Very unusually, we have seen him several times over the last 5 months and it has been really really great, however we are due to see him on Wednesday and he really seems like he genuinely doesn’t want to see us.
When we saw him last at the end of May we had a lovely time, when they returned home we went back to Skyping. Dgs often “punishes” us for leaving for a couple of days or so by not wanting to speak to us, we fully understand this, as he obviously doesn’t understand why we can’t see him regularly.
Over the past 2 or 3 weeks though, he doesn’t want to speak to me at all, he’s genuinely not looking forward to seeing us on Wednesday even though we are taking him to his favourite play park. He really doesn’t want to see us at all.
I truly understand that maybe he’s a bit fed up with us, and honestly, that’s absolutely fine, but I really am worried why he is feeling like this, what has happened to make him feel like this.
I’m not saying “what have I done wrong?” Because I know I haven’t, I’m just looking for any words of wisdom as to why this might be happening.
So in a nutshell he is due to go on the train tomorrow do see our daughter and her wife who he loves dearly, then on Wednesday we are due to collect Ds, Ddil and Dgs from our Dds and to bring him to stay with us for a couple of days.
He genuinely seems like he doesn’t want to see any of us including our Dd.
As I have said, I don’t feel offended by this behaviour, I am genuinely very worried why he feels like this.
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