I always worried that I am not as active as the 'other' granny until the littlest GC said they were so glad that they always knew where I was and I always had time to talk and cuddle as well as being good at stories. Very precious!
Haha, that’s nice Maw? We are good for something after all. It took our oldest DGS a long time to realise fully that his mother was our little girl grown up.
* lemongrove* I can remember when our GC realised that their daddy was our little boy all grown up and the look of sheer amazement. You could see the cogs whirring and then a question, "Will daddy be grandad one day and will granddad be someone else?" So funny!
Synonymous I also recall the stage in grandchildren's development when they start figuring out the interrelationships of the family around them. In our case it also involved explaining how grandma and grandpa used to be married to each other and were the parents of mum or dad but were now married to another person. Kids are remarkably adaptable and once they got it sorted it was all fine. Now they are older they still find it amusing to contemplate their parents ever having been a child.
The little girl's words and the poem brought a tear to my eye, too. I hope I can live up to them. I'll try and practise - will be seeing DGS next April, and DGD in a couple of weekends if all goes to plan.
My DGS hasn’t got the hang of family dynamics yet.When DH showed him some photos of his mum as little girl he asked where he was. His grandad explained that he hadn’t been born at that time , to which he promptly replied “ well that’s just silly “ !
I’m going to be a first time nana in the New Year and this has certainly given me something to aim for, although I’m hoping I’m young enough to still play hard and run!
How did I miss this when it was first posted? Wonderful! Thanks Maw, that little essay brought a tear to my eye. Oh the innocence of children - they see everything with such simple clarity.
And yes, I remember when my dds first found out their gps were our parents, etc. - how amazed they were! Same with my dgc when they first realized their mum was once my "little girl," and so on. Sooo sweet!