That WILL question again.
Battling a serious illness, which hopefully I am winning of course brings my mind back to the question of my will.
I do have a will, but I think it may be best to adjust it. The problem is my 2 sons, who unfortunately both have addictions. I feel not only will my hard earned money be wasted, but it will help them into an early grave.
The eldest son who is nearly 40 is a little more responsible and keeps a nice home, but the younger boy in his twenties lives in absolute squalor. Both have "Conditions", which the younger one was diagnosed with at 7, but the elder never diagnosed.
Elder son is very helpful and does my odd jobs for me, but his addictions I feel are now out of control. Neither will get help with addictions, or other issues. Both caused me lots of worry, but I am totally out of my depth, and in fact find it extremely difficult to be in younger son's company for very long. Addictions apparently are quite common with people who have these conditions.
I would like to leave them something, but I keep putting off making a new will because in a perfect world I would have liked to have left my beneficiaries all equal amounts, and my thoughts are that other family members could put the money to good use.
So depressing and upsetting.