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Children's Names

(31 Posts)
starbox Fri 16-Nov-18 23:52:12

Yes, agree how the 'demographic' associated with a name changes over time- as a 1962 child, my schoolmates were all Julies, Lindas, Sharons, Jackies...all of which once signified 'young person' but now sound really middle-aged/ old!

mcem Fri 16-Nov-18 23:37:48

Your grandma wasn't an old lady when she was given her name!

SueDonim Fri 16-Nov-18 23:34:35

My student doctor daughter has an 'old school' name. It's always a talking point when she's speaking to elderly patients. They tell her it's beautiful and that it's what their mother/granny/aunt was called and that it's years since they came across anyone with the name.

GrandmaFaye Fri 16-Nov-18 22:56:39

Ada is a pretty name.

Grandma70s Fri 16-Nov-18 22:24:48

So true. I would add Jean and Enid. Some of the names that were frequently used when I was young are coming back, though. My granddaughter (6) has friends called Margaret and Ann as well as names none of my contemporaries had, like Charlotte, Florence, Emily, Edith and Elsie. I think there's a Muriel as well.

Once I can see past the ‘old lady’ quality of Ada - I had a great aunt called that - I think it’s a pretty name.

JustGrandma Fri 16-Nov-18 21:49:00

So, my granddaughter's name is Ada. My grandma was also called Ada and she was one of the best women to ever have walked the earth so I was delighted when I knew my granddaughter was to have the same name.

I said to my daughter that I loved it but was she really ok with giving a small baby an old lady name? Her reply wasn't what I was expecting. She said - it's not an old lady name, it's a Victorian name, old ladies aren't called that. I said - so what are old ladies called then? She's a nurse and spends most of her time with 'old ladies' and her reply was - you know mum, names like Doreen, Maureen, Joan, Barbara, Connie, Eileen, Elaine, Sylvia, Sonia, Margaret. GOSH!

The penny has now dropped - old ladies were called Ada and similar names when I was little but now I'm in my sixties they, of course, have all died off, and older people are indeed called the names my daughter mentioned.

All the Victorian names are back in force. Little Ada has friends called Elsie, Flora, Florence, Mabel, Nellie, Norah and Ivy.