I used to work 22 1/2 hours a week over 3 days but lost that job and ended up working 30 hours a week over 5 days - so shorter days but no free days in the week. I used to volunteer on one of those free days and the other enabled me to keep on top of 'stuff' in my life. It's five years now since that change, and though I cope with the extra demands, I don't cope with the 'stuff' at home anymore. My house is in a state and I struggle to keep up to date with paperwork etc. I'm less than 2 years away from retiring and I can't wait!
So never feel guilty about saying no to childcare. I knew I was slowing down towards retirement but was forced to speed up again and it is very hard. There is so much I want to do but don't have the time or the energy for them so I look forward to being able to do them in my retirement. At the moment I don't have GC but if they come along in future I shall be very careful how much help I offer - if any at all.
Do you still wear you original wedding and engagement ring
To think that London, or anywhere else for that matter, does not belong to any one demographic