Nonnie
"Sorry Bibbity parents have no rights they have responsibilities, there is a difference and I have checked it out."
Huh? Rights and responsibilities are two very different things. Not sure what world you live in, but you sound utterly ridiculous by saying that parents have no rights. Now this may be your personal belief and I'd respect that - but the fact that you choose to personally believe that parents have no rights does not necessarily make that a universally acceptable fact. FACT remains that each country and/or state has its own laws that govern parental rights AND responsibilities (again two vastly different things) - and legally parents may lose their legal rights to a child if a court decides terminate these rights. So to say that parents have no rights is something that seemingly exists in your own world.
Examples of parental RIGHTS:
1. A RIGHT to legal custody - allowing them to make major decisions about their child's health, education, and religious upbringing.
2. A RIGHT to physical custody.
3. A RIGHT to pass property to their children e.g. via inheritance etc.
Alternatively, parents are legally RESPONSIBLE for meeting their children's basic needs. e.g. food, clothing, housing, medical care, and education.
The two (Rights vs. Responsibilities) are therefore NOT the same and on can't argue that parents have no rights but have responsibilities. Take for example a father (or mother) who chooses not to be in their minor child's life. Based on such a choice, they may further lack any physical or legal custody of the said child, and as such wouldn't have any RIGHT to make medical/educational decisions that pertain to this child - but a court of law would still expect him to meet his parental RESPONSIBILITIES and order him to pay child support if the child's mother file for it, and is deemed eligible to receive it.
Never heard such a thing like parts have no rights and to say so is a completely baseless argument. You can argue about this all day and night but whether or not you accept it, the FACT remains that parents not only have rights, but had rights that are protected by the law.
Also for the OP - It's one thing to be estranged from one AC. But when more than one of your AC are estranged from you - both of whom restrict your access to their children, then maybe you as the parent have to take a step back and do some self reflection.