Welcome to gransnet denscott. I can identify with what you're going through. I was very involved in my dgc lives up until they moved 1,000 miles away last summer. The early months were so difficult and it still is at times. We did go visit last fall and had planned to go this spring but of course that won't be happening anytime soon.
Initially we skyped every week which was great but the past few months that has gone to about every other week. The older two, now nearly 8 & 10 will say hello but are usually anxious to get back to whatever they were doing. The little ones, 3 & 5 are still very engaged with us and enjoy showing us various things. It's fun just to watch them play! No pressure for more frequent calls though as we understand the parents are very busy and it is comforting for us to know they are all thriving in their new environment.
It has helped me to put together packages for special occasions (halloween, Christmas, Valentine, birthdays) with treats/gifts for each child and they have always skyped with us when they are opening the package. I'm thankful for video chatting!
As previous posters have stated, it does get easier with time. I try to focus on the positive (they are happy and it's a better place for them to be) and not dwell on missing them. Sometimes the emotion gets to me and I wallow in it a bit but it passes and I move on.
Periods of transition always seem to bring me some degree of melancholy. You are dealing with a lot right now so be kind to yourself as you adjust to the changes. Hopefully you have some help with your mom's care and can plan a trip to Alaska when it's safe to travel. I wish you the best. S.
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