I m trying to get a picture of all this to come up with some ideas
Can you think about the relationship and see anything positive?
Is the baby loved and looked after? Is the house kept clean is the baby thriving? Is she played with ?
Do you go over once a fortnight to their place and see this conflict for yourself or does your son tell you all about it ?
You say none of them go out, do the men work ? You say your son is financially independent so I presume he is working when you say you support them what actually do you mean ?
I m sorry for all these questions but before you ring anyone you need to have all the facts at your fingertips, you need to be clear what you are asking for and what you are telling them
Get a piece of paper and a pen and write down bullet points of all your concerns I may be wrong but I get the impression you are being fed lots of negative information and moans over the phone and then are left thinking and imagining what’s happening with no one to talk it over with and you are understandable overwhelmed with concerns and fears whilst being on your own with no one to talk it over with
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