I have always had a good relationship with my son. Since he met his current girlfriend I have felt disconnected with him. Now she is expecting in December 2021 and not only does she snub all family get togethers my son has also not involved himself with the family and only involves himself with her family, including grandparents and sister but totally ignores his own family and brother, who has moved house and he has never stepped foot in his new house since he moved over a year ago. But he puts himself out for his girlfriends family and friends. It is a fight to get him to attend at any family celebration and now snubs celebrations that have always been in the family. His girlfriend is now pregnant due in December, she continues to snub any family celebrations but now has said that they will both be isolating from September to the birth and now Christmas (which has always been a big celebration) is a no go as they will be isolating for 6 weeks after the birth on the advice of the RCM which I know is not true. We are not even allowed to be at the birth. She has isolated my son and now wants to isolate our grandchild.
I am not unreasonable or expecting anything more only to be involved in the birth of my grandson but she has managed not to allow us anywhere near. She always sees her own family. He used to ring but now even his calls have stopped. We have tried to be supportive to him and help out when needed but he just ignores any attempts. They have hurt me so very much and also the rest of the family.
I don’t know how to deal with this situation and any advice would be appreciated.
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