I've lived in England for over 20 years, have British citizenship, passport and love this country. However with the covid pandemic, I was not able to see my beloved DGS & DGD for two+ years, as they live in New York. They were 5 & 6 the last time I visited, so now 7 & 8 - big changes! When I got my heart set on a visit this August, I was dismayed to learn that the bloody US was not accepting UK citizens! Well, I scrambled and with much difficulty and a bit of luck I was able to get an appointment at the US embassy in London and renew my US passport! In the event, I went and had an amazing visit! The children enjoyed every minute and didn't want me to leave. So that is the happy part. But whilst there, I was thinking about all the horrible school shootings that happen in the US, and tried to think of a way to ask the children about this topic. I asked about fire drills at schools, and then asked if there were any other 'drills' that they might have. They both responded energetically with "Oh yes, we have a drill for Uninvited Visitors" Oh my God, it sent a chill down my spine. They described how the school went into lockdown and how they hid in bathrooms and closets. My heart breaks even writing about this. I pray that they will never have this situation and try and focus on the wonderful, safe neighbourhood they live in, the happy childhood they are having, and my lovely DD and SIL who are loving parents. But being a grandparent includes worry doesn't it? Not really looking for advice, just sharing.
