Gransnet forums

Grandparenting

University student arriving at exams without the right equipment, one even forgot his pen

(83 Posts)
Cambsnan Thu 02-May-24 15:56:04

If you have adult grandchildren who are not very organised how about gifting them an exam pack. Clear pencil case with basic pens, ruler, pencils and what ever sort of calculator they need for their exams. I spent the last 2 weeks invigilating university exams where young people turned up late, in the wrong place, without basic equipment, without tissues in hay fever season, no bottle of water and needing the toilet five minutes into an exam. They are babies in adult bodies!

southwestgran Mon 06-May-24 13:54:56

Our granddaughter has no lectures at all this term. I’d like to ask just what she’s paying for with her massive student loan!

JdotJ Mon 06-May-24 13:28:07

Fail to prepare
Prepare to fail

knspol Mon 06-May-24 12:59:16

Germanshepherdsmum

Perhaps grandparents should be turning up to see their GC just before each university exam and asking ‘Have you been?’.

Nice one!

westendgirl Mon 06-May-24 12:49:04

Phones must be switched off and left in bags, which are put at the front/ side /back of room.

Gangan2 Mon 06-May-24 12:38:45

I think so many are 'wrapped up in cotton wool' these days they don't learn to think for themselves. Goodness knows how some will cope in the work place!
My daughter went travelling, on a shoestring,and it was the best thing for her.
She returned a capable adult !

Cambsnan Mon 06-May-24 12:38:33

Nothing is provided! Invigilators check calculators. Only those that cannot be pre programmed are allowed!

Norah Mon 06-May-24 12:36:21

Hithere

How about letting them fail so they learn from their mistakes?

Helicopter grandparenting is not good

I'm a person with ADD, I think Hithere has the correct idea.

I do admit I still never having a pencil or pen when I need one when out of our home, fortunately not ever a crisis. I can typically deal with most things and arrive at a workable solution.

People must learn to work within their own limitations.

westendgirl Mon 06-May-24 12:36:17

Message withdrawn at poster's request.

Goldieoldie15 Mon 06-May-24 12:33:24

Oh well so what’s new here! Just incompetent overprotective or neglectful parents

lovesreading Mon 06-May-24 12:24:16

We had a NQT start at the senior school where I worked who asked her head of department if she could start at 8.30 instead of 8.00 as she couldn't get up early enough to arrive on time!

Calendargirl Mon 06-May-24 12:22:42

Even if they are escorted to the loo, surely they can grab a quick look at an answer on their phone whilst in there?

I assume the ‘escort’ doesn’t actually go in the cubicle with them!

cc Mon 06-May-24 12:12:47

It's very likely that most students would not be allowed to use their own calculators in university exams as they can be pre-programmed which is not allowed. They are likely to be provided.

meddijess Mon 06-May-24 12:06:12

Have you ever done an exam at degree level? Until you have I don't think you can make nasty comments about students forgetting things. Exams at that level are incredibly stressful, and usually after the first time, the undergrads get better at managing their time, what they have to take, etc. Please be a little kinder to our poor young people, many of whom are still struggling after the lockdowns. My GD was on her own most of the time as her single mum was an essential worker.

Lindy Mon 06-May-24 12:03:15

Cambsnan well said. Thank you for being compassionate, Some kids are probably so wound up and nervous things go out of their heads. A little leeway would be kind.

biglouis Mon 06-May-24 11:59:53

When I was at uni the youngsters used to come to me and ask for a copy of my notes because they knew I never missed a lecture. They were probably in bed with a hangover. Unfortunately for them I made very minimal notes - usually half a sheet of A4 with some odd words or phrases on it and lots of arrows from one to another. Then I went home, did the reading and wrote a much fuller version on my early equivalent of a laptop. I used to suppress the laughter when I handed some lazybones a copy of my initial notes, for all the good it ever did them.

luluaugust Mon 06-May-24 11:48:55

They should be escorted to the toilet

aggie Mon 06-May-24 11:48:42

When I was doing a history exam at school , I think it was senior cert , or something, I struggled as every date I even learned disappeared from my memory bank !
I was moaning to my best friend when she started laughing
It was Coronation year , my biro was a fat white job with all the dates of the kings from 1066 till Elizabeth the second
How clever of me (and the invigilator) not to notice
I did pass

westendgirl Mon 06-May-24 11:44:24

Students ,at school or not are always escorted to the toilet during exams.
It is important that they are drilled as if students , and this includes children at school , do not follow the instructions they loose marks, or indeed get no marks at all. It does matter that they answer in black pen for example, unless given other instructions. Ask examiners what they come across when marking .

RakshaMK Mon 06-May-24 11:44:10

My son started University in September. Since before he started school I'd had concerns about his behaviour. Everyone dismissed me - school, health visitor, GP...
He's now been diagnosed (privately) with Dyspraxia and ADHD.
These conditions ruined his school life Dyspraxia affected his executive function (remembering to hand in homework, or take equipment to exams).
It's not always being lazy, or not thinking, sometimes it's a recognised condition that they can get help for.
He's very happy at University now he's getting support, and doing well.

biglouis Mon 06-May-24 11:39:42

My son is a university lecturer and is far from happy with the attitudes and behaviour of some undergraduates

As an academic I was not impressed by them either! And that was back in the 1990s. And these are the kinds of young people emerging from uni who are often fast tracked over experienced capable (older) people because they have an extra bit of paper.

Nannashirlz Mon 06-May-24 11:38:02

Having worked with a lot of them unfortunately all they think about is having night out or next party not have I got a pen. You got to let them stand on their own two feet they never going to learn if you do everything for them.

Keekaboo Mon 06-May-24 11:37:04

I was a Chief Invigilator for 21 years and if a student wanted to go to the toilet they were escorted there.

They were not allowed pencil cases on the desks or even water these were on the floor.

At the start of every exam I announced what the exam was and the paper number too.

So there shouldn’t be anyone there who was in the wrong exam.
The school prepared the students for exams during the prelims and they were well aware of the guidelines.
The guidelines were set out by the exam body.

The students are nervous and that was always taken into account and I could write a book about all the ways we found and heard about students cheating. One girl even wrote answers on her thighs under her skirt. She was caught!

westendgirl Mon 06-May-24 11:32:22

Why didn't the students rise up about the war in Syria, or why not about the dreadful troubles in the Sudan ?

Charleygirl5 Mon 06-May-24 11:31:13

Many years ago I was an invigilator at a local school where the teenagers were sitting A and O level exams or whatever. It appeared to be the fault of the invigilator if several darlings had forgotten to write their names. Not on my watch, that is the first thing I asked them to do before they officially started.

Calipso Mon 06-May-24 11:30:46

I am a little taken aback that so many posters think that this lack of organisation is acceptable. It has nothing to do with the pandemic. In our family, children are brought up to organise their equipment for school well before the end of Primary school.