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Friend happy she has no grandchildren as world is scary place

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Cambsnan Sun 24-Nov-24 09:56:11

A conversation with a grandchildless friend left me unsettled. She said how glad she was that she had no grandchildren as the world is in such a desperate state. Is she right? If you were young would you bring a a baby into this world?

Springtimerose Tue 14-Jan-25 20:56:36

The world and majority of people in it are getting worse. No way would I put a child through it.

pinkprincess Tue 14-Jan-25 21:25:37

I was born towards the end of WW2. My great grandmother cried when my mother told her she was pregnant with me.She asked my mother what sort of a world she was bringing the poor baby into.
It happens all the time.
I have two great grandchildren and find myself wondering what their future holds.

Tenko Tue 14-Jan-25 21:27:05

If I was young , yes I’d have children , because I’d always wanted children .
Yes the world is scary with wars, climate change , disasters , children stabbing children on buses to name a few . But it’s always been scary , as others have mentioned the two world wars and the nuclear threat .
I know a few young people who don’t want to bring children into this world . And I totally understand. We also have quite a number of friends in their 50s and 60s who never wanted children and I think this has filtered down to the younger generation. That you don’t need children to have a fulfilling life .

PamelaJ1 Tue 14-Jan-25 21:41:09

My granny told me that she was glad that she lived when she did and was not my age.
I’m sure my mother would say she lived in a better time than granny and myself.
I think I was lucky to live when I did and do think we had less to worry about than young people today.
I think that the OP’s question will have been asked down the ages. I think that the worlds obliteration is still a little way down the line so yes I would have children and hope, as previous generations have, that they will be part of the solution.