Deep rift with my DD over grandchildren s behaviour

So was I sago and I got over it
Like she will …
It’s not the end of the world

And by the way Bluebelle they were not having a sleepover at my house
U totally misread the post

Hello Bluebelle
Thank you for your judging comment
Have you ever had to deal with a 5 year old who defies u , who has no respect for authority ?
If you have , then I will accept your comments
Otherwise….

No it isn’t a wind up
Please don’t be insulting

Just say no next time

I was frequently told how horrible I was by my wicked mother.

I am 62 and it still hurts.

It seems you are not sorry and you are now trying to blame your daughter.

I would be desperate to apologise and make everything right.

And
I think the rift with your daughter is not over your grandaughters behaviour but over the way you handled it and your behaviour
I wouldn’t let my child sleep over with someone who told them they were horrid

As long as there’s no physical violence, it can’t do them harm but if u feel u can’t help , that’s fine ,you dont need to reply

Well even that post shows a rather sharp, rude retort
Your behaviour sounds really quite out of order, she’s only a little 5 year old, and you obviously can’t cope and to tell a child she is horrible really isn’t on, I m not surprised the mother is not rushing to be with you today
Obviously you can’t cope with three children sleeping over. So be honest and tell your daughter you can’t manage them all late and night and have them singly for sleep overs

This has to be a wind up.

I accept that but sheets defiant , rude and nasty
I was tired , it was 10pm + and I dont regret saying it , I think children nowadays need to hear some home truths
As long as there’s no physical violence, it can’t do them harm but if u feel u can’t help , that’s fine , u dont need to reply
Thank u

I don't think calling a child a name is a very adult thing to do.