Thank you Shysal. I can see that happening to me too. ?
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and come introduce yourself on this thread. Hope you enjoy chatting in the forums and that you find it useful, informative, supportive and entertaining. 
. Tin hat and space behind the sofa a good idea, you have GN summed up! I am a coward and rarely join any controversy! I don't even bother reading the political or religious threads. I am sure you will enjoy all the pleasant aspects, which are the majority.
l so love being Mother Bear to my three children and am in heaven being a Granny!!! I look forward to joining in on the forums ;) Happy Sunday x