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What's the best thing about being a mother? Signed book giveaway! **NOW CLOSED**

(60 Posts)
LauraGransnet (GNHQ) Mon 20-Mar-17 08:42:10

If you're a long-distance gran or for any other reason don't have plans to see your children this weekend for Mother's Day, why not bake this delicious ginger cake by nutritionist Jane Clarke and invite another mother round for a cuppa.

Tell us what the best thing is about being a mother and be in with a chance of winning a signed copy of Jane's book Nourish.

You can find out more about Jane on her website.

Competition closes Friday 24 March.

busterjames Tue 21-Mar-17 20:05:23

Having my 2 boys just gives me so much pleasure .They make life so good!!

jacksmum Tue 21-Mar-17 20:14:58

Best thing for me is watching my babies grow and blossom into adults,and then in time having babies of their own , the pride in seeing my babies as parents and giving me the wonderful gift of grandchildren ,sums up for me what being a mother means.

pamelaJEAN Tue 21-Mar-17 21:27:24

The best thing about being a mum is having the love and friendship of my children , then lots of love and cuddles off my grandchildren, and soon to have even more cuddles off
my brand new great granddaughter due in June. I can honestly say being a mum is one of the hardest things I have done in my life , but by far the best.

live7 Tue 21-Mar-17 23:11:01

That special bond that you have because they are part of you, unique, you nourish them and bring them up and no one can take that special relationship away.

BBbevan Wed 22-Mar-17 05:40:46

Unconditional love both ways, and now extended to GDs.

Rinouchka Wed 22-Mar-17 07:26:44

May I add to my previous post, that loving, nourishing, supporting and letting go ( with a watchful, engaged eye) are also essential bits of being a mother? But the latter may only apply to those of us who are long-distance mothers( and grandmothers).

grannypiper Wed 22-Mar-17 07:51:45

When they leave home but still come back to visit because they love you and not because they feel duty bound.grin

SusieWilkinson Wed 22-Mar-17 10:18:51

The little things........the impromptu hug, a surprise bunch of flowers, just knowing that you're important to someone......

otherwiseknownasGrandma Wed 22-Mar-17 10:35:06

The best thing about being a Mum? Getting to be a grandmother!

Jayanna9040 Wed 22-Mar-17 10:38:07

I just loved being pregnant. I bloomed, I glowed, I had boobs, I was good at it! Would have gone on and on having babies if we hadn't been so poor and so worried about world population...

SheenaBatey Wed 22-Mar-17 12:09:01

Being proud I 'seem' to have instilled the right values in my daughter. I am so proud of her.

wallers5 Wed 22-Mar-17 16:02:09

The best thing about being a mother is that they are there for you in your old age.

Tallulah57 Wed 22-Mar-17 21:14:43

When your child tells you "I love you Mom".

DimensionAEB Thu 23-Mar-17 01:27:14

The best thing about being a mother is seeing your child smile for the very first time.

Liz46 Thu 23-Mar-17 06:14:46

I recently emailed both my daughters to say 'don't bother to do anything for mother's day'. I told them that they have turned into lovely ladies and I am very proud of them and that is all I need.
My birthday is a couple of weeks after mother's day and they are both taking me out for a meal together with my grandchildren and I am really looking forward to that. My eldest daughter is travelling a long way for the occasion but is staying for a few days to visit the rest of the family.

marpau Thu 23-Mar-17 10:39:00

Seeing my son's become fine young men and caring fathers

angiehoggett Thu 23-Mar-17 10:42:44

The best thing is every time they make me laugh I smile to myself about how proud I am to be their Mam

sallyc06 Thu 23-Mar-17 11:20:06

I was an only child and had no aspirations career wise, all I wanted was a family, so now I have 4 children and 8 grandchildren so my wishes really did come true. I have 2 boys and 2 girls, all grown up now and in a funny kind of a way, they are now my children and my brothers and sisters, my best friends. Best thing about being a mum, we share all the ups and downs, I am not alone anymore. I am going to attach a photo of me with Violet on the day she was born and she is 2 now.

minilynn3 Thu 23-Mar-17 11:25:17

Always having a purpose in life, something to get up for and to motivate you to work, and to do your best!

sjwfrance Thu 23-Mar-17 13:56:54

Best thing about being a Mum,
Like I could ever say,
There's good bits,
(and some bad ones),
But it's me every which way,
Never a dull moment,
There's challenges aplenty,
My days are super busy,
Oh to find a minute empty,
They grow up oh so very quick,
Days, weeks, months, years pass by,
I aim to be the bestest Mum,
In everything I try,
I know that I'm not perfect,
I get it wrong sometimes,
But I live - I love and laugh A LOT,
With these offspring that are mine!

jazbaz1986 Thu 23-Mar-17 14:15:04

I love being a mother, its the most rewarding job in the world.
I love seeing my children grow up and getting to spend quality time as a family. I like to make memories with them, that can last a lifetime.
I have 4 children and each child fills my heart with joy.

sheridarby Thu 23-Mar-17 14:33:33

The best thing about being a mum is everything - From childhood thrills to seeing them become independent grown up people

caroleann Thu 23-Mar-17 16:35:11

getting loads of presents on my birthday, mothers day & christmas x

Isis1981uk Thu 23-Mar-17 18:21:55

Seeing my kids learning new things & developing their own, strong personalities!

maisietoo Thu 23-Mar-17 18:23:28

The best thing about being a mother is the happiness I feel when they are playing happily.