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Welcome to the *Gransnet Café. This is a non-judgemental space for you to pop in for a cuppa with some virtual friends, seek out advice for a particular problem, or share an update on your life - important or trivial. Feel free to have your say and chat about your day, but please leave any arguments at the door. If you're struggling to find someone to talk to in real life, or are simply looking for a bit of a chat, this is the place for you.

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LaraGransnet (GNHQ) Thu 13-Sept-18 10:53:26

Any new joiners? smile If you've recently signed up to Gransnet or have been around a while but haven't got round to posting anything yet, please pop over to Welcome to Gransnet to introduce yourself and have a virtual cup of cafe or wine.

Septimia Sat 19-Jan-19 11:46:05

I've posted a few times already on other topics, so thought an introduction was overdue.
I've been a teacher, printer, archaeologist; now retired. Live near the foothills of the Pennines in NE England. Have one DH, one DS and DiL, and one DGD; and 2 cats.
I've joined GN because I've been impressed by the all the good advice and support that so many people give and receive on here.

Marydoll Thu 17-Jan-19 11:48:35

Alwaysreading1, Welcome. I to had to retire early due to my RA. It takes a bit of getting used.
Looking forward to see you posting.
I'm currently passing the time at the One stop hand clinic.

Alwaysreading1 Thu 17-Jan-19 11:36:46

Hi. I've only just found this page this morning but i only joined on the 6th January so I'm still newish. I've been reading articles for a while but it was the 50 books or more thread that made me pluck up courage and join in. Not posted anything anywhere else before. Have 2 gorgeous little granddaughters one 3 just before Christmas and the other one will be 1 in 2 weeks time. Took early retirement middle of 2017 (egged on by husband and my Rheumatoid arthritis) and still not used to it, missing the daily social contact rather than the bus commute!

Marydoll Tue 15-Jan-19 23:42:39

cap308, I usually go into Last hour or Last Day at the top of the page. You can usually find all the current ones there.
Why don't you just play about and get the gist of things. Good luck!

Marydoll Tue 15-Jan-19 23:32:01

www.gransnet.com/forums/chat/1255899-Soops-comfortable-and-convivial-kitchen

Hope this works!

cap308 Tue 15-Jan-19 23:15:20

Thanks Marydoll. I've found the good morning thread and the games but seem to be struggling to find the current soops kitchen, are you able to point me in the right direction please?

Marydoll Tue 15-Jan-19 22:04:11

Which thread did you post on, Noonie104?

Noonie104 Tue 15-Jan-19 21:57:10

Hi I have been around this site and posted but can't see anything or any replies :-(

Charleygirl5 Tue 15-Jan-19 13:53:40

Grannibobs you will not receive advice on this thread because it is a different thread. You will have to open a separate one for your problem.

Grannibobs Tue 15-Jan-19 09:36:31

Hi I've just signed up to grans net. I'm desperate for advice. My son left his wife and children and moved back home. He has been seeing / staying with another woman. I am very unhappy about it and told him he needs to sort things out with his wife. My older grandson who is 8 is finding it very hard as my son was always a very hands on dad. I know he adores his boys and still goes round every day to see them ,bath them and put them to bed. He looks illwith all this. II'm worried for all of them. My dilemma is wether I should tell my daughter in law about this other woman. I know it's not really my place but my son won't tell her. I don't want to do the wrong thing. Can anyone advise me, please ?

Marydoll Tue 15-Jan-19 08:27:05

cap308, welcome! I like the term in the shadows, much better than, lurking.

Are you ready to post? The Good Morning thread, Soops Kitchen and the games are all good ways to ease your way in and get to know people.

cap308 Mon 14-Jan-19 23:56:58

I too have been in the shadows for a while, enjoying 'listening in' to the chats. I found Gransnet after listening to my daughter talking about mumsnet and wondered if there might be something out there for me so tried a google search and found Gransnet. I'm 61 took early retirement and absolutely love it. I have a granddaughter who will be 2 in March and absolutely love looking after her one day a week.

Charleygirl5 Mon 14-Jan-19 18:04:18

Like this, I have just pressed "add comment" to this discussion between us. Okay?

Charleygirl5 Mon 14-Jan-19 18:01:34

No problem. Say you opened a thread to start a coffee meetup in the area where you live. Nobody has replied, it is about to go off the forum so you just add something like- anybody out there interested and it will automatically go close to the top of the Forum. I hope this makes sense.

SusiQ Mon 14-Jan-19 17:55:16

Charleygirl15, can you suggest how I could 'bump' them up please?

Charleygirl5 Mon 14-Jan-19 11:41:32

SusiQ it is Soop's kitchen and you just have to scroll down the main list and you will find it.

Re meetups, you may have been unlucky with the day you chose to open a thread re meetups in your area. I find that meetup threads are there one minute and gone the next so you have to "bump" them up so that gives others a chance to read your post.

SusiQ Mon 14-Jan-19 11:11:13

I joined just a week or so ago but this is the first time I've looked at Gransnet Café and can see some familiar names from other forums which is somehow comforting because it does make it feel like a big family. However, I'm not very technical and find it a little difficult to find different threads. Loop's kitchen is mentioned. Where do I find it?

I did put a post to try to find Grans in my area in north London but it was a no no. Plan to go to other meet ups a bit further afield though, which I'm looking forward to.

Grammaretto Mon 14-Jan-19 10:08:53

Welcome Noonie104 and others signing up recently.
I haven't been on quite a year yet but find myself drawn in. We have local meet ups too.

Charleygirl5 Sun 13-Jan-19 22:13:04

Welcome Noonie. We are certainly increasing which is good.

Noonie104 Sun 13-Jan-19 12:48:22

Hi just joined GN. I was looking for some information on a search and came across it. It looks like a good fun chatty site. My work is very serious and sometimes deals with sad and difficult issues. I really enjoy it but sometimes it's nice to just chat and share life information. I lice the kitchen a warm and friendly place which I miss the kitchen was the heart of my home with lively chat and good food. My eldest is the other side of the world with my only grandchild to date. So virtual fluffy maybe but we all need to feel the warmth of other humans even in words. Oh I do like a good hike but I also enjoy a nice glass of something and good food and good company. I look forward to following posts and maybe even adding some.

Twin2 Fri 11-Jan-19 20:45:10

Thank you MissAdventure and Charleygirl 5 ?

Charleygirl5 Fri 11-Jan-19 11:10:11

Twin2 please stick around- some of us are actually approachable and pleasant! If you want a really helpful kind thread go to soop's kitchen. You can lurk in the wings to find out what is going on because it is quite fast moving as there are a lot of us who like that thread.

MissAdventure Fri 11-Jan-19 10:22:25

Oh that's good news, twin2. Glad you've decided to stick around.

Twin2 Fri 11-Jan-19 10:15:59

After talking to my friend who recommended Gransnet she thinks I should give it another chance and I shouldn’t let the odd few patronising posters win, so I’ll try again.

Charleygirl5 Fri 11-Jan-19 08:48:00

kshep43 if you are expecting a reply it would be better if you opened a separate thread because it is a different subject.