I lost my father in 2016 and my mother 2017. I have 3 children who dont even remember my parents. I have had 3 operations after their passings due to birth complications. I am trying to be a good mum, i am trying to work out how to grieve, i am trying to be as healthy as i can but i miss my parents so much and feel lost. i dont feel strong connections to aunties or uncles, due to poor health my relationships with friends faded. I have no grandparents. I actually googled how to adopt a mum as im only 36. I feel so wronged. I just want to be able to go for a coffee with my mum, go to see a movie. Just anything. I miss not having a parental figure in my life. It just feels very lonely and i feel so lost.
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