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Help deciding baby girl name

(158 Posts)
xoubie Sun 13-Sept-26 11:37:54

My husband and I have differing tastes when it comes to names. We've got two names that we agree on:

Liora and Twyla.

We are both in love with the sound of Liora, but worried because we aren't Jewish and don't want to offend anyone. Twyla is so pretty but we are worried it's too "out there" and the reactions from others we've tested it on haven't been great.

Names I like but my husband dislikes: Melody, Cadence, Violet, Daisy, Annabelle

Names my husband likes but I dislike: Ophelia, Penelope, Lucy, Miriam

Her middle name will be Mae.

Any suggestions if other names? Or opinions on the names Liora or Twyla?

Purplepixie Wed 16-Sept-26 05:31:18

How about Ruby Mae?

rugbymumcumbria Wed 16-Sept-26 06:44:57

I don’t like it when people give shortened versions of a name to their child. Sure, call your son Bobby if you want, but give him the name Robert - then he can choose his own derivative when he’s older.

Greenfinch Wed 16-Sept-26 11:19:35

I disagree. My nephew was given the name Freddie. He says he is go grateful he wasn’t lumbered with the name Frederick and have to acknowledge that on official documents.

Cressida Wed 16-Sept-26 11:26:00

CarrotTop

I love the trend of naming children after the place they were conceived. If I'd done that, my son would be called Canvey Island. Hmmm.... hmm

I'd have a son called Helston which actually doesn't sound that bad.

PamelaJ1 Wed 16-Sept-26 11:32:47

CarrotTop

I love the trend of naming children after the place they were conceived. If I'd done that, my son would be called Canvey Island. Hmmm.... hmm

Mine would be Enton and Five Ashes!
I tried to give mine names that were difficult to shorten. I failed. One just got called by his first initial the other seems to prefer her nickname. I still call them by their given names though and I still like them.

JenniferEccles Wed 16-Sept-26 12:06:47

It’s always a minefield choosing a baby’s name so that the child doesn’t grow up to wonder what on earth their parents were thinking of, as dare I say it, with the two mentioned!

I remember reading once that primary school teachers look at the list of their new arrivals in September and how their hearts sink at some, as experience has told them that the child will be somewhat of a challenge as will be the parents!

I won’t mention any names on here for obvious reasons but I’m pretty sure that I am safe quoting Chardonnay!

“Chardonnay! Come ‘ere” !

Oreo Wed 16-Sept-26 12:14:11

Jennifer you may not like it but Liora is a recognised Jewish name not something made up just now or like naming your child after a type of wine.

NotSpaghetti Wed 16-Sept-26 12:26:09

I think the OP was in part concerned to use it because she isn't Jewish.

There are a lot of Hebrew names in common use though it seems to me.

JenniferEccles Wed 16-Sept-26 12:32:47

Oh apologies Oreo I didn’t realise that.
It’s a good job though that there’s such a variety of names around or life would get very confusing!

Greenfinch Wed 16-Sept-26 13:20:31

As it does when studying family history when people were much more conservative about choosing names. I have lost count of the number of Alexanders with the same surname I have been chasing.

JenniRen Wed 16-Sept-26 15:04:50

Greenfinch

As it does when studying family history when people were much more conservative about choosing names. I have lost count of the number of Alexanders with the same surname I have been chasing.

William anyone?
Or John/Jonathan alternately over the generations?

Shel1951 Mon 21-Sept-26 16:55:11

I have always loved Lisbeth but sadly dh didn't

Basgetti Tue 22-Sept-26 09:35:25

Maybe Leonora or Tara?

Witzend Tue 22-Sept-26 09:37:38

Aveline

I absolutely can't stand Lilibet unless it's addressed to the Queen by a very close relative. It was unforgivable for that Markle woman to use it. angry

Absolutely!

Casdon Tue 22-Sept-26 09:40:19

It’s always interested me that so many baby girls are given ‘fashionable’ names, often for relatively short periods before another name hits the top, whereas that happens so much less frequently for boys, the majority of whom are given traditional names. Why is that?

JenniRen Tue 22-Sept-26 12:53:16

Casdon

It’s always interested me that so many baby girls are given ‘fashionable’ names, often for relatively short periods before another name hits the top, whereas that happens so much less frequently for boys, the majority of whom are given traditional names. Why is that?

I have noticed that boys' names had become far less traditional, judging by some of the teenage boys in my granddaughters' peer group at school; some names sound like those of footballers. They are still as popular but not so much now.

Frenchgalinspain Tue 22-Sept-26 13:10:25

Our twin daughters are Noelle and Natalia.

They were not give middle names as they were given a middle name at their Baptism.

Noelle Christine & Natalia Marie ..

Frenchgalinspain Tue 22-Sept-26 13:24:24

What do the parents of this little baby girl wish to name her ?

butterandjam Tue 22-Sept-26 23:07:09

Casdon

It’s always interested me that so many baby girls are given ‘fashionable’ names, often for relatively short periods before another name hits the top, whereas that happens so much less frequently for boys, the majority of whom are given traditional names. Why is that?

Really?

River, Leaf, Ocean, Forest, Phoenix, Kai, Darcy, Finn, Theo....

Basgetti Wed 23-Sept-26 09:18:18

“That Markle Wiman”?!
Good grief, you don’t think her husband had any input? 🙄

Casdon Wed 23-Sept-26 09:27:47

butterandjam

Casdon

It’s always interested me that so many baby girls are given ‘fashionable’ names, often for relatively short periods before another name hits the top, whereas that happens so much less frequently for boys, the majority of whom are given traditional names. Why is that?

Really?

River, Leaf, Ocean, Forest, Phoenix, Kai, Darcy, Finn, Theo....

It is the case though, if you look up the stats. Parents apparently choose more traditional, family names for boys than for girls. That doesn’t mean there aren’t some weird and wonderful boys names, just less of them than there are girls names.

mummytummy Wed 23-Sept-26 09:38:29

Personally I don’t like either of the OP’s chosen names.
Some of my favourites in no particular order, are:
Ivy
Elsie
Edith
Heather
Jessica
Annie

There are some names I used to like but then met not so nice people with those names which turned me right off them 😂

DamaskRose Wed 23-Sept-26 10:19:45

My name is a little bit unusual and mispronounced by many. My husband’s is misspelt by nearly everybody! My children and grandchildren have straightforward names not misspelt or mispronounced by anyone. I’d recommend that. Don’t like Liora or Twyla, sorry.

Bazza Wed 23-Sept-26 12:09:05

My friend’s granny told everyone that her new great granddaughter was called Kipper, when she was actually called Erin. She thought it was Herring, and then her elderly mind confused it again with Kipper. Erin is still called Kip.

Shel1951 Wed 23-Sept-26 12:55:37

Hope the poster comes back and let us know what they decided to call her in the end, it would be nice