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Katek Mon 01-Dec-14 09:59:09

Completely overloaded and yes, some of it is my own fault. Doesn't make it any easier to deal with though! On top of the usual Christmas activities ...gift buying, card writing, getting decs up -all of which are now running late- I'm also responsible for village Christmas lights and I direct and stage manage the village panto. (No, I'm not Linda Snell!) Panto is on this week and I'm still altering a crocodile head for tonight having spent the weekend transforming the village hall into a theatre. I also have to try and catch up with dc and dgc who are 70 and 100 miles away, plus local dd and dgd, not to mention recently bereaved FIL who is a day's travel there and back. DH's accounts need to be at accountant ASAP as well and I really should fit in a dental appt as I have a twinge-y molar. Cat was ill last week and SIL has now sustained a significant rugby injury which requires surgery this week. I had DGS to stay for 3 days last week as his school had in service days, and DGD the week before for the same reason.

My asthma is currently pretty bad, been coughing like I'm on 40 Woodbine and doc now wants to add Montelukast into mix of preventer and reliever meds I already have. I'm not happy about this as I feel responsible because of my overload and think things will settle down again post Xmas. I'm also catching every virus that's out there so just lurch from one bout of ill health to another. Not sleeping either.

I'm def doing too much but can't offload anything. Help-am going under for third time!

Katek Fri 05-Dec-14 16:37:09

Two performances down and two to go. All going well and I'm hanging in there. Roll on Sunday though.

Katek Mon 08-Dec-14 09:51:19

Woohoo! I made it through a week of performances! Panto was very well received which is where the danger comes in-always tempted to do another. I'm shattered but very relaxed now and off tomorrow to see DGS in his Christmas play. Will stay overnight and then head back home on Wednesday morning to see DGD in her Christmas play! Think I may treat myself to a first class rail ticket (get third off with my Railcard so it's quite reasonable)and relax with tea and the morning papers instead of driving down/back through commuter crushes.

papaoscar Mon 08-Dec-14 16:24:35

Now stop, Katek, stop, stop, stop! Sit down, put your feet up, pour yourself a stiff drink or have a nice cup of tea, and promise yourself NEVER, ever to get in that state again! Let others take the strain. Happy Christmas!

FarNorth Mon 08-Dec-14 17:40:16

Well done, Katek.

Now check back to the opening post of this thread. Think of that poor woman under all that stress and struggling to cope - how can you help her in the future?

Great advice from papaoscar - time for relaxation and enjoyment. brew cupcake

Katek Mon 08-Dec-14 17:42:13

Thank you papaoscar! I am sitting at this very minute with a nice cuppa in my favourite poppy mug and a Jaffa cake! Have also booked that first class rail ticket!