iam64, I have not been online for a couple of days so have just read your post regarding my supposed 'winding up' of readers of this subject.
NO, I am not winding anyone up, I find your remarks offensive and away from the subject. I stand by my original posts on this subject and I cannot see why anyone need be on any 'plan'. Many older people have really serious illnesses and recover completely. How can any medical staff know how long anyone has to live. My relative was given 1 month with his cancer, he lived for another 32 years.
Why cant sick and/or elderly just be looked after with care and compassion like anyone else. Why should they be different, a cup of tea and a biscuit is no different given to a dying person than to another who is seriously ill. Also someone who is ill and not expected to die could die from an unexpected cause such as a heart attack.
I really don't understand all the fuss. My friend had just e mailed me to say her aunt died yesterday btw.