Not wishing to show off but I just want to point out the benefits I have experienced since stopping alcohol, just in case it helps others take the plunge. I sleep really well, my skin is heaps better, more energy, less anxiety, lower heart rate. I feel more interesting and calm and I remember things now. I feel more confident and I have lost weight, yippee. I also have a lot less hot flushes, double yippee!
I cannot believe I had the other side of the above and lived with them for so long, I feel ashamed and pretty stupid really and yes I probably sound a bit smug. Believe me that is not the intention, I guess it is another 'stage' and I won't keep on I promise, I just find it interesting. I can focus on other things instead of thinking about the next drink and my day is longer because I am awake in the evening.
I know it's only three weeks and I have done diets etc for years and I recognise the stages of withdrawal enough to not presume this is it. There is a lot of social stuff to get through but if I have a drink I will admit it and see how it affects me, until then I will push on. VQ you ok?