He said it is much worse this winter.
Thank you cornergran, thanks all x
Have things improved in your 60s?
He said it is much worse this winter.
Thank you cornergran, thanks all x
my daugher has been bedridden for almost three weeks,she has three children.The pain clinic she attended told her she would "just have to learn to live with it"This is a woman who has always been independent ,has her own business,is the go to person when anyone wants a charity event catered for ...for free.Has been known to be cooking for 75 people for events on Christmas Eve and have a full house/open door on Christmas day .This horrible thing that has invaded her body and now her mind is destroying her life and her spirit now and she said yesterday if she didn't have kids she'd"check out" It breaks my heart ,if cutting off all my limbs would give her some life back I'd do it in a heartbeat.She is the brightest,most talented warm hearted woman you could hope to meet and life is shit for her.23pills a day to just function .I would say to your son in law who isn't DONT go down the drug route,it only exacerbates the problem .
Yes, the cold makes DD worse, and it flares at times of stress,
She is still able to work, but has admitted to me that she sometimes cries when driving ( it’s the use of legs and feet on a cold morning.)
As others say, there are no two same approaches to pain and what suits one won’t suit another, and is all about managing the condition.
I find that extremes of temperature really affect me . Winter time with weather like we are having right now is worst of all so a good set of thermals will help him when working outside . Mountain warehouse have some merino wool ones on half price sale at the moment . Don't bother with looking elsewhere I've done the homework and at 80% merino they are best at around £25 per item . I just bought one of our sons a set as he works outside during nights in Scotland too so a tad chilly . Other outdoor shops are only 50% merino and twice the price.
Too hot ie abroad really makes me bad too much
nb I have no connection with mountain warehouse stores I have as I said just recently looked into it .
I’ve had fibro for 27 years annie and been able to work during much of that time although I had to make adjustments and learn to pace to do it. I was lucky, I had an adaptable profession.
One of the issues is it is a syndrome. No two people will have identical symptoms. Generalised pain and fatigue are common, the location and type of pain often varies. I found referral to an NHS pain management clinic really useful. Yes, medication was discussed as one option but there was access to psychological approaches (CBT primarily which also teaches pacing techniques), specialist physio and acupuncture. I was also very fortunate to get an NHS referral for homeopathy which has helped enormously, if for no other reason than my consultant treats me as a whole person. I also found a nutritionist who used applied kinesiology (I know, many say it’s rubbish but I suspended disbelief) very helpful, adjusting my diet helped and helps enormously. I’ve found yoga and Mindfulness useful. Can’t tolerate massage
Fibro usually interferes with sleep. We’ve often met on GN in the early hours. Lack of sleep really impedes pain management. It’s a difficult cycle, without sleep it’s hard to manage pain but the pain disturbs sleep. You don’t say how the diagnosis has come about. I hope via a rheumatologist or neurologist. If it’s GP diagnosis I would strongly recommend requesting a consultant referral for management advice. A consultant is often the gateway to a pain clinic.
For myself I use medication when I need to alongside other approaches. Physiologically I can’t tolerate any medication which is too strong. Other people can. We’re all different. Please PM me if it should seem useful. I’m more than happy to share experiences but do remember its an illness that can vary so much, it can flare and settle or stay at a constant level. It is a pain that’s for sure.
Yes, I understand that, but he will be on his feet a lot, so may have to get the right mix of sitting and walking, because it will affect what he can do.
I fear he will take the medication route, he has a building firm to run,
Yes Annie our DD has it, sometimes struggles to walk.
Massage of deep muscle tissue helps and yoga and tai chi classes, otherwise it’s the painkillers route.It is for life and not much to be done.
I am sorry Nanabilly, seems an awful illness
I have it !
It's a nightmare as you can't make plans for things as you just don't know what you are going to be like on any given day but you have to and warn people that you may have to cancel or change plans if you are unwell.
I only take pain relief and no other meds for it and I control it as much as I can by resting as I need to and keeping moving when I can.
Not much else can be done for it you just have to get to know the signs your body is giving you and do whatever is right at the time.
Each fms sufferer is different to the next .
Thank you Paddyann, it is alternatives I am seeking . I will tell his wife about the forums x
its the disease from hell and I wouldn't wish it on anyone,my lovely daughter has it as well as a couple of other painful conditions and its hard first of all to have Fibro diagnosed and then to get help.If they haven't started him on multiple medications please try to get him to try alternatives first.They just add one after the other to the list of pills they prescribe and I worry that the drugs are in themselves causing problems.The alternatives have helped her but usually short term.Acupunture was a success for a while and Actipatch helped with her pain too.There are several forums on FB where help and advice is available ,tell him to log onto them .I wish him all the best with this and hope it doesn't get too bad for him,our next thing is hypnosis for pain control
Not me this time thank heaven
My son in law who isn't has developed this. Any suffers? and advice please?
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