Our block of 4 flats was formed into a company for the proper organisation of the properties, with a Company Secretary and a Director appointed from each of the four flats. We run the company ourselves, and one of the Directors is appointed Company Secretary to do the administration: it is registered with Companies House. No Director or Company Secretary is paid, to save money, which is why a management company hasn't been appointed to run our affairs.
A friend has a now-ex husband who was formally diagnosed with Narcissistic Personality Disorder, which is why it dawned on me that the Company Secretary of our block of flats, probably has a narcissistic "tendency."
Symptoms include
- lack of empathy for other people
- arrogant, self-centred, manipulative and demanding
- difficulty tolerating criticism or defeat
- believe they are superior.
I dare say we all know somebody resembling the above list, but it gets serious when our Company Secretary enjoys publicly humiliating, among the other residents of our block, my kind, thoughtful, helpful and really good husband. We have a string of emails to prove this erratic behaviour. Basically she is determined to make us move out of our home ......
So far I have just emailed all the residents, explaining that Directors and Company Secretaries have a responsibility to all the flats, and that public humiliation stops all co-operation.
We have to have the support of the other directors to get rid of her, but she has one of the elderly directors to side with her, who publicly humiliated my husband in front of the shared gardener and an acquaintance. My husband said nothing, just turned away, and heard "don't turn away from me when I'm speaking to you"......! She may be elderly but I don't think she has narcissistic tendencies!
How do we stop this young accountant of a Company Secretary forcing us out of our home - any ideas?
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