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Scared she’s not coming home

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morethan2 Sun 30-Sept-18 21:36:45

Tonight I’m scared, she might not come home. Her babies are upstairs in bed. Please don’t make my boy have to tell them she’s never coming home. Is there a god because if there is he’d stop this now.

Jalima1108 Mon 01-Oct-18 15:02:55

morethan thinking of you all and sending heartfelt wishes flowers

Nonnie Mon 01-Oct-18 15:18:41

Not read other threads about this so only know what is on this one. I cannot imagine how hard this is for all of you so will simply at my prayers for you all.

I was told that sometimes when people awake from a coma they have heard all that has been said while they were unconscious so keep saying all the things she would like to hear, it just might help. God bless you all.

Mapleleaf Mon 01-Oct-18 15:24:13

Thinking of you and your family, morethan. ?

annodomini Mon 01-Oct-18 15:25:00

I've only just caught up with your news, morethan. I am thinking of you and your family at this terribly tense time. I hope for better news of your dear DiL for whom I know you have been a tower of strength during her illness. ?

PamelaJ1 Mon 01-Oct-18 15:49:46

What a very anxious and sad time you are having. I hope you manage to stay strong for the family. It sounds as though they will need you and all your love.
If thoughts help then I’ll add mine to the mountain of them that have already been sent.

harrigran Mon 01-Oct-18 15:51:49

Adding my best wishes morethan, thinking of you flowers

Suki70 Mon 01-Oct-18 16:00:34

Morethan, thinking of you and your family and hoping for better news for you all. Stay strong and hold those babies close.

Auntieflo Mon 01-Oct-18 16:41:18

Morethan, you and your family have so been on my mind. I am hoping that today you have had no bad news. {{{hugs}}} and prayers coming from me here as well.

TwiceAsNice Mon 01-Oct-18 16:56:10

Sending my thoughts prayers and best wishes. Do hope you have some good news soon

grannyactivist Mon 01-Oct-18 18:46:54

Only just seen this and so very sorry for your situation - adding my prayers too. flowers

anna7 Mon 01-Oct-18 19:25:21

Thinking of you and your family. Sending best wishes and prayers.

morethan2 Mon 01-Oct-18 20:29:44

I want to thank you for sending support during my lowest ebb. I was very distressed and being alone with no communication was awful. Having her children upstairs added to my worst fears. There has been no change she remains completely unconscious. I saw her today and she looked asleep and I thought she’s not suffering, it’s our turn to suffer. My poor son cried in my arms sobbing. Her family are besides themselves. Many thanks for all your kindness, support and prayers.

Luckygirl Mon 01-Oct-18 20:32:18

How very sad morethan - what a dreadful time for you all.

You will want to be strong for everyone, but do take a moment here and there to replenish your emotional batteries. flowers

Anniebach Mon 01-Oct-18 20:33:11

There is always support here for you morethan2 , x

Jane10 Mon 01-Oct-18 20:36:24

Oh morethan! Sending love and very best wishes to you and your family.

Marydoll Mon 01-Oct-18 20:39:27

Morethan, your heart must be breaking. There is nothing I can say or do , but continue to offer prayers for all your family and that you will find the strength to get through this this terrible time

Brunette10 Mon 01-Oct-18 20:39:38

A big group hug from us all.

farview Mon 01-Oct-18 20:54:42

If we could wish upon a star...and ease your pain..we would.. Godbless you x

SueDonim Mon 01-Oct-18 20:58:29

Your distress was palpable, Morethan. This is just the most awful, awful thing. sad I'm glad your dil is not suffering but, ye gods, this is terrible for everyone else. I wish I could say something more comforting but words fail me. flowers

Cherrytree59 Mon 01-Oct-18 21:01:54

Think of you and your lovely family. Xxx

MawBroon Mon 01-Oct-18 21:17:03

You have been in my thoughts all day and the tears have never been far.
I wish strength to you all for the coming days and all the support for each other which a truly loving family can provide.
Your lovely DIL is at peace and beyond suffering now, and my heart goes out to you all flowers

annsixty Mon 01-Oct-18 21:36:46

I can only send love and prayers for you all to have the courage you are going to need.

NonnaW Mon 01-Oct-18 21:37:23

I’ve only just seen this, and can only add to others to say how desperately sorry I am to hear this and add my thoughts to all the others.

Bathsheba Mon 01-Oct-18 21:37:29

Oh morethan, I've been thinking of you so much, checking back here throughout the day hoping for positive news, but it seems that is not to be.

God, what a terrible time you're all going through, your poor, poor son, the children, her parents. I just can't imagine. My heart is breaking for you all sadflowers

Doodle Mon 01-Oct-18 21:42:02

morethan such a sad time for all of you. I can't imagine how hard it must be for you all at the moment. I think there are many GNetters who have spent their day thinking of you and what you are going through. In our thoughts and in our prayers flowers