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DD will be discharged from hospital this afternoon.

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merlotgran Fri 26-Apr-19 13:34:01

It will be for the last time as there is no further treatment possible other than pain relief. She wants to be at home with all of us so we will do everything we can to make whatever time she has left comfortable and stress free. We will have support from Macmillan and district nurses and should there come a time when we are no longer able to cope, DD has agreed to go into a hospice.

Family support has been wonderful but I have to admit I'm a little scared and very, very sad.

CherylMoon Sat 27-Apr-19 09:19:27

I’m so sorry to read this. It’s the right place to be for her. She is surrounded by those she loves.

Take care of yourself x flowers

Oldfossil Sat 27-Apr-19 09:17:55

Can add nothing to the sentiments expressed so well above. Wishing you strength - you already have endless love. ?

Fflaurie Sat 27-Apr-19 09:12:59

My heart aches for you all. This is the wrong way round, we expect to lose grandparents, parents and women tend to outlive their men, but this is terrible. Feel free to come to us all on here for support.

Fugazi Sat 27-Apr-19 09:11:53

Stay Strong, Merlot flowers

polnan Sat 27-Apr-19 09:09:52

flowers I can find no words, but lots of love and prayers

Riverwalk Sat 27-Apr-19 08:19:48

I'm so sorry Merlot flowers

Alima Sat 27-Apr-19 08:17:49

I can only imagine what you are all going through. My heart goes out to you and your family.

NfkDumpling Sat 27-Apr-19 08:15:50

flowers and (((hugs))) XX

Lindylou51 Sat 27-Apr-19 08:09:42

So very sad Merlot. My thoughts are with you.

downtoearth Sat 27-Apr-19 06:49:28

Merlot you and your family are in my thoughts,I cant add anymore to the thoughts and love already expressed,you will find strength from somewhere within you and support from all on hereflowers

crystaltipps Sat 27-Apr-19 06:16:22

This is so sad. Keep close and share your love and sorrows. She is with her loved ones ?

GrandmainOz Sat 27-Apr-19 06:15:39

Loving thoughts are with you merlotgran I wish you strength. There are many of us thinking of you in your ordeal

BradfordLass72 Sat 27-Apr-19 06:14:07

I hope that in some small way, all the love, thoughts and prayers mentioned here, will comfort you and your family.

May our love sustain you, our thoughts comfort you and our prayers bring you peace when you need it.

Much love
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ffinnochio Sat 27-Apr-19 05:44:47

Merlot Such a heartbreaking time. I echo all that’s been said. Wishing you strength and fortitude in the weeks to come. flowers

Faye Sat 27-Apr-19 01:09:02

So sad to read this Merlot, this must so hard for you. Thinking of you and your family. flowers

PageTurner Sat 27-Apr-19 00:47:49

Merlotgran, I'm sorry to hear such sad news. You and your family are in my thoughts.?

Graso Fri 26-Apr-19 21:57:01

Wishing you all the strength to bear this. Sending thoughts and prayers. ?

Sar53 Fri 26-Apr-19 21:51:21

Thinking of you and your family at this sad time flowers

BlueBelle Fri 26-Apr-19 21:43:33

So sad to hear this merlot it’s unbearable to lose a chid however old I hope she and you find peace and have some precious time together you are n my thoughts x

NanKate Fri 26-Apr-19 21:36:17

How desperately sad Merlot ?

Deedaa Fri 26-Apr-19 20:56:02

So very sad! I know I will face this eventually with DH, but I can't imagine what I would do if it was DD. I hope you still have time to build some memories XX

JoyBloggs Fri 26-Apr-19 20:50:31

So very, very sad. Thinking of you and your family flowers

Iam64 Fri 26-Apr-19 20:44:02

Love And prayers xx

Alygran Fri 26-Apr-19 20:21:42

flowers for you and your family

harrigran Fri 26-Apr-19 20:06:39

Thinking of you and willing you the strength to carry you through this difficult time.